You can totally recover the 42,000+30,0001bride price, because you didn't register and didn't use your actual marriage life, and the money from these materials made your family's life difficult-the bride price borrowed.

The money for shopping may not come back.

It doesn't matter if there is a wedding. As long as it's not registered. She didn't share a room with you, which smacks of a scam.

I guess you have to call the police and go to court. Her family can't directly refund the money to you. prosecute