2. Return gifts: The woman's family will also return gifts, including betel nuts (meaning the groom).
3. Bed: The night before the wedding, the woman will find a blessed man (happy family, parents alive, and a son) to come to the new bed in the new house and put well-meaning food such as peanuts, red dates and walnuts on the bed.
4. Dowry: The bride will put the dowry prepared at home in a red suitcase before getting married and take it to her husband's house the next day.
5. Above: The night before their wedding, they will choose an auspicious time to worship God, heaven and earth, pray for blessings, and at the same time inform the man to worship God.
6. Comb her hair: The bride will ask a blessed elder to comb her hair.
7. Eat glutinous rice balls: it means that you can get married and be happy.
Etiquette on wedding day
1. Wedding reception: On the morning of the wedding, the man's reception team will come to the woman's house to receive relatives.
2. Looking for red shoes: The groom will look for red shoes for the bride in the room where the bride is picked up, put on red shoes and take the bride away.
3. Worship tea: Newcomers should offer tea to their parents, and bow (weakly) According to the old custom, newlyweds should not bow before visiting Aunt Weng at the man's house. That is, the couple should stand and offer tea to their parents. However, it is not so particular now. Kneel if you want to, to show your mind. )
4. Hold a red umbrella and sprinkle rice: The bridesmaid holds a red umbrella to accompany the bride and groom to go out, and will sprinkle rice to the chicken while walking to avoid the chicken pecking at the bride.
5. Bypass the auspicious road: the car that welcomes the wedding must bypass the auspicious road in the urban area. Such as auspicious road, Huifu road and other roads in the name of good luck.
6. Going through the door: Going through the door means that after the woman goes out to meet the elders of the man's family, such as Weng Gu, the bride officially enters the man's family.
7. Wedding: A ceremony is held in the hotel. The master of ceremonies will preside over the ceremony.
8. Visiting guests: After the banquet begins, when the fish is served, the bride puts on the traditional dragon and phoenix robe to offer tea to the guests.
9. Entering the bridal chamber: After the banquet, the couple will let some friends visit the bridal chamber or have fun.
10. Going back to the door: Going back to the door in three dynasties means that on the third day after the wedding, the bride, accompanied by her husband, goes back to her family with roast pigs and gifts to worship her ancestors.