Generally, the gift money ranges from thousands to tens of thousands, such as banquet invitations ... You can calculate it yourself, and the other few hundred dollars can be done. In fact, if you marry a girl in Meizhou, you only need to mention the gift money when you accompany your parents to the woman's house (gesture of proposing marriage, hehe) (the gift money is exquisite, you can ask her parents for details, because even in Meizhou, there will be similarities and differences). It seems that your parents must be your mother. The woman wants to pay a dowry (in fact, it is a suitcase, a red umbrella, etc. , worth hundreds of dollars), and she also wants to get on the "sedan chair" (sedan chair is usually paid by the woman)