First, true love is not necessarily possession.

There is a question worth thinking about, that is, if you are a (male) woman, would you like to marry yourself?

No one is perfect. In fact, it is normal for people we love not to love themselves.

So does love have to be owned?

I think if I were a man, I would have nothing and I wouldn't marry the girl I love. I just want to make her happy, whether it's me or not.

Second, love can be without money, but marriage can't.

Love is free and deserves to be blessed. This is just a matter for two people.

But marriage is not. Marriage is the combination of two families, and there will be the marriage of the next generation.

If you don't have a certain financial ability, it is easy to quarrel.

Marriage with material foundation is not necessarily happy, and marriage without material foundation is basically unhappy.

Third, if you have children, you can't bear to be wronged by them, but you can only be wronged by yourself.

When I was a child, I felt that there was love, and it didn't matter if there was no material, but what should I do with my beloved baby?

Seeing other people's children have everything, do you have the heart to have your own baby?

Therefore, you can only reduce the expenses you give her.

Yes, children can't suffer, and mothers can only wronged themselves.

So I won't get married without a red carpet, wedding dress and wedding photos.