When people get married in China, they will treat them with wine. There are only two purposes. One is to save face. Please invite relatives and friends to witness your wedding. The more people come, the better your character, the better your popularity and the better your relationship, and you earn face invisibly. The second is to share the cost. Scenes and banquets cost a lot of money, so I have to pay for them all by myself. Some feel distressed, and some work hard. China is a society that pays attention to interpersonal relationships. The banquet at the wedding banquet is a self-evident opportunity to get back all kinds of gifts spent by both men and women and their families over the years.
Therefore, people who come to the wedding banquet will give a reasonable red envelope according to their close relationship with the married couple and the local average level. Although the method of announcing the number of guests' gifts at weddings has been reformed, the ceremony is rarely sung live. However, after the wedding reception, newlyweds often take a notebook to record the guests' gifts in detail so as to "return the gifts" in the future.
In many relationships between the bride and groom, the relationship between colleagues is generally equal with the ceremony. This is because people in all units are mobile now. Today they are colleagues, but tomorrow they may not be colleagues. Therefore, don't expect to receive unexpected big red envelopes except for colleagues who have a very good relationship. In this event, the bride's 18 colleagues got together and presented a lovable digital red envelope of "13 14". It is reasonable to say that there is a little less money, but there is no need to guess what malice this 18 person will have. This 18 people also know that there is little money, so most people are embarrassed to have a drink-only one leader and colleague came to the scene as a representative, so there is no problem of not getting the money back. None of these colleagues will buy you a drink in the future. If your red envelope is greater than this average, it means that you are generous and generous. If you are still angry about this matter, "reciprocity" is. What's there to be angry about?