The real bride price is only 20 thousand, less than the salary of ordinary women for half a year. Compared with your absence in your parents' life, it's nothing. There is a grandfather, a granddaughter and a grandson in our unit, who is considerate and misses his wife. He is happy to mention his wife and has close contacts with his in-laws, but he is a very traditional person and thinks it is normal to give her a bride price. In modern society, when his daughter is stronger than his son and is a little cotton-padded jacket, he obviously thinks that he just likes his grandson more than his granddaughter, and even he is happy to see his grandson, as if he can see the bright future of their old Qin family. The son's future marriage will increase the population of their old Qin family, while the granddaughter and grandson have enjoyed the same parental care since childhood, but the granddaughter married someone else to contribute to others' family when she was able to support her parents and family, and gave birth to a child, which is also a son-in-law's family. She has worked hard all her life to cultivate future generations for her son-in-law's family, and her contribution to the family she came from is far from her son! I didn't know the root of son preference before, and I didn't know it was here until I heard his story! If the landlord looks at these aspects, the real cost paid by the man's family can basically be nothing!