Proposal for resisting high bride price and advocating civilized new style (1) cadres, masses and young friends in the county:
A happy marriage and a happy family is everyone's expectation, the common aspiration of parents all over the world and the foundation of social harmony. However, influenced by many factors, the bride price has increased year by year in recent years, and the phenomenon of lavish handling and vanity has become more and more serious. This unhealthy phenomenon not only increases the debt of gratitude, but also leads to poverty and return to poverty due to marriage, leaving many families in trouble. At the same time, it also provides a hotbed for some people to take the opportunity to collect money, which seriously corrupts the social atmosphere. In order to carry forward the traditional virtues, resist the sky-high bride price, abandon the bad wedding habits, and advocate a new civilized style, the following initiatives are hereby issued:
First, when you are newly married, you should advocate thrift.
We advocate abandoning old ideas and customs. When choosing the other half of life, we should pay attention to personality and feelings, not take money as the sole criterion to measure happiness, not ceremony and marriage customs as the yardstick to measure marriage, not bride price (dowry), abandon high bride price, and advocate collective weddings and tourist weddings. , frugal, moderate and unforgettable. Consciously resist comparison, extravagance and waste, do not engage in grand ceremonies, do not engage in luxury banquets, do not engage in luxury motorcades, do not engage in ostentation and extravagance, and be an advocate of thrift!
Second, change customs and be a promoter of purifying customs.
Advocate a bunch of flowers, a text message, a greeting and other civilized hospitality ways to express congratulations and enhance feelings. Do not handle festive matters such as full moon wine, door wine, military wine, housewarming wine, put an end to spamming invitations, accepting gifts, throwing banquets, extravagance and taking the opportunity to collect money, consciously resist the bad habit of disguised luxury and ostentation, and be a promoter of purifying customs!
Third, take the lead in demonstrating and be a leader in leading new fashions.
Advocate frugality and keep everything simple. Don't handle all kinds of festive matters and oppose large-scale activities. Advocate "CD Action" and oppose waste on the dining table. No high-end tobacco and alcohol, no high-end dishes, no more dishes, order as needed, and be a leader in leading the new trend!
Here, we call on the broad masses of cadres and young friends in the county to join hands, resist the sky-high bride price, establish a wedding style, build a happy family, build a harmonious society, strive to be advocates, disseminators and practitioners of new times and new fashions, and strive to be promoters and leaders of changing customs and doing things in a civilized way, so as to build a green, happy and beautiful new xx for * *, and contribute to creating a happy and beautiful new life for * * *.
Sponsor: xxx
20xx year x month x day
Proposal for resisting high bride price and advocating civilized new style (II) Cadres and young friends in the county:
Advocating etiquette is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, but some stereotypes and comparison psychology in marriage activities add some discordant notes to this sacred wedding, and even become an obstacle to the happiness of many young people. In recent years, the phenomenon of high bride price and luxurious marriage still exists in our county, and the phenomenon of poverty caused by marriage and returning to poverty due to marriage is becoming more and more serious. High bride price has become a prominent social problem that hinders the process of poverty alleviation.
In order to oppose the high bride price, effectively resist the bad habits of marriage, and advocate the new style of civilization, the xx County Women's Federation issued the following initiatives:
First, do what you can and resist the high bride price.
Every family should respect the objective reality and act according to its own material and financial resources. When choosing a partner, put personality and feelings first, don't be burdened by material and money, understand the hard work of the other parents, and don't let the high-priced bride price kidnap a beautiful marriage. Young women in the county should carry forward the spirit of "self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement" and establish a correct view of marriage and love. We should start from ourselves, consciously resist the high bride price, oppose the trend of comparison, create a healthy, thrifty and civilized new marriage fashion with practical actions, and get rid of the stereotypes such as high-priced bride price, luxurious marriage, mutual comparison, and seeking wealth through marriage.
Second, frugal wedding, advocating simplicity.
Diligence is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. A wedding, a simple happy event, not only embodies the wind of etiquette and humanity, but also shows the wind of civilization and frugality. Young marriageable women should be considerate and grateful to their parents, not demanding too much, not talking about ostentation and extravagance, not comparing with each other, and not extravagance and waste. In the engagement and marriage, we advocate not engaging in grand ceremonies, but pursuing civilized, simple and elegant engagement and marriage ceremonies. Save funds for banquets, banquets, and large-scale events, develop wealthy businesses, create healthy and upward social trends, and promote the construction of an economical society.
Third, change customs and advocate new happy events.
The majority of young women in the county should consciously abandon outdated and backward concepts and choose environmentally friendly, innovative and safe ways to express and enjoy the festive atmosphere. Reduce the discharge of fireworks and firecrackers, reduce air pollution and prevent noise from disturbing the people. Do not advocate or participate in vulgar "noisy marriage", and abandon all uncivilized wedding behaviors, so that the wedding can not only reflect the wind of etiquette and humanity, but also highlight the wind of environmental protection and civilization.
Marriage is no small matter, and love is priceless. It is the unshirkable responsibility of every young woman and family member to advocate a civilized new style and resist the sky-high bride price, and it is also a symbol of social civilization. We advocate the good atmosphere of "marriage, simple ceremony and low-carbon life", starting from me and now, leading the fashion of the times, and doing our part to win the battle against poverty in our county and build a rich, harmonious, beautiful and happy xx!
Sponsor: xxx
20xx year x month x day
Proposal for resisting high bride price and advocating civilized new style (3) Women and sisters;
A happy marriage and a harmonious family are the expectations of all unmarried young people and the common aspirations of parents all over the world. In order to resist the high bride price and vulgar customs, advocate changing customs, and form a healthy and civilized new social trend in the whole society, xx Women's Federation issued the following initiatives to the majority of women and sisters in the city:
First, refuse the high bride price and carry forward the spirit of self-reliance and self-reliance
Advocate the establishment of a correct concept of marriage and love, attach importance to personality and feelings when choosing a spouse, regard skill and diligence as the main conditions for choosing a spouse, not be burdened by material and money, consciously resist the high bride price, create a new marriage fashion that leads frugality and civilization, carry forward the spirit of "self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement", and create a happy life with your own hands.
Second, push for simple happy events and inherit the concept of thrift.
Young marriageable people should actively respond to the call of new weddings and simple weddings, consciously resist blind comparison and extravagance, and actively adopt new wedding methods such as group weddings and travel weddings, emphasizing significance over form, making weddings simple and elegant, which not only embodies the wind of etiquette and humanity, but also highlights the wind of civilization and thrift.
Third, cultivate a good family style and create civilized folk customs and social customs.
Actively practice the socialist core values, establish a good family style, inherit good family training, change the village style, folk customs and social style with good family style, and return the bride price to rationality. The majority of women and sisters should take the lead in abandoning old ideas, establishing new ideas, mobilizing family members and relatives to establish a new marriage fashion, rejecting high bride price and striving to be a new model.
Resisting the high bride price and advocating the new style of civilization are the signs of social civilization and progress, the needs of social development and the unshirkable responsibility of each of us. Ladies and sisters, let's join hands, start from me, start from now on, get rid of stereotypes, promote the change of customs, strive to be advocates, disseminators and practitioners of the new era and fashion, and let the new wind of civilization blow all over xx!
Sponsor: xxx
20xx year x month x day