But getting married in the eyes of the post-90 s is nothing more than being lonely for a long time and trying to find someone to make do with it. To put it more directly, I just want to find someone to play with in my future life!
Of course, these two views only come from our current real life, but why do people get married? Actually marriage is a way of life. Moreover, in real life, two people get married to avoid being disturbed by loneliness, and there is a kind of spiritual interdependence. When you are in trouble, people who know you will cheer you up and even give you a shoulder to lean on. In the final analysis, it is to make your life more meaningful and let yourself feel the tragic side of life as little as possible.
If you are single or in love, your understanding of marriage will be two completely different concepts. For single people, do you think this is a very distant thing: getting married? I haven't had enough fun yet ................................................................................................................................................. When ....................... got married, there would be no nightclubs, no bars, only one woman around! And a friend in love may think: getting married seems a little scary … I feel I'm not ready yet, so there's no hurry … let me think it over! But putting the topic of marriage in front of a person over 30 may be another attitude: I think marriage is a complete life, and it is too lonely not to get married. Really, no one wants to get married every day after 30!
So marriage has different understandings for different groups of people, but put this topic on a large scale: isn't marriage for a better life? Just like how to solve a person's loneliness, marriage is to solve a person's loneliness in life. Because marriage can bring happiness to many people, family happiness is the sublimation after marriage, so many people are willing to get married.
However, with the development of society, many people don't get married because they find a lot of happiness that they haven't found before. With the growth of their own knowledge and spiritual level, it is feasible for young people to have different understandings of marriage.