During the period of love, the amount that one party normally spends for the other party or has special significance (such as 13 14, 520, etc.). ), especially on special dates, such as Valentine's Day or Tanabata, are generally considered as gifts for each other, and this kind of money is non-refundable.

If the transfer amount is large and there is evidence to prove the true meaning, you can request the return. If there are relevant records or evidence to prove that the transfer is a loan, you can ask the other party to return it based on the loan relationship.

legal ground

Contract law of the people's Republic of China

Article 192 Legal revocation of gift

In any of the following circumstances, the donor may revoke the gift: (1) seriously infringing on the donor or the donor's close relatives; (two) the donor has the obligation to support and fails to perform; (3) Failing to perform the obligations stipulated in the gift contract. The donor's right of revocation shall be exercised within one year from the date when he knows or should know the reason for revocation.