It's just a meal. How much can it cost? Even if you don't let people eat, they won't say anything, just say it in advance, but you didn't say it, and now you blame people for not eating. To tell you the truth, if you tell him that after you eat this meal, the balance will not be settled, then I believe that he 100% will not eat this meal, and people will not owe you this meal. So, I don't think it's really necessary. Obviously, getting married is a very happy thing, a very festive thing, but also so stingy, and then everyone is unhappy. If you have to haggle over every ounce on these things, then I think it is really meaningless to be a man.
Maybe they still think it's the master of ceremonies, and they don't think the master of ceremonies should serve food. Actually, I don't think it matters whether I go to normal school or not. If my family allows me, I will serve the table. I won't eat if it's not allowed at home. No big deal. Generally, after the wedding, the host family will arrange which table the emcee will sit at for dinner. If you don't think people should eat this meal, then after the wedding, you can make it clear to them that you don't have to arrange it. It's not like people have to eat your food. Why don't you make it clear? I don't think it's really appropriate to stab in the back like this.