1. What do you need to talk about before you get married?
1, children's problems
Nowadays, girls like to have children according to their own wishes, so should we discuss whether to have children before getting married? When will you have children after marriage? Who will take care of the baby after it is born? Children's future education issues, etc. , the two sides need to reach an understanding.
2. Family division of labor
After marriage, family responsibilities are shared, and everyone should pay equally. For example, the problem of supporting the elderly on both sides, who earns money and who does housework. Talk about these things in advance. Then there will be fewer contradictions after marriage.
3. Marriage requirements
Nowadays, when men and women get married, there will be many requirements. For example, the form of the wedding, the location of the wedding, the wedding company, whether to buy a wedding room, whose name to write in the wedding room, the money for the decoration of the wedding room, whether to buy a wedding car, wedding ring and dowry all need to be discussed clearly. When negotiating, we should grasp the scale to avoid the accidental collapse of both sides.
4. Premarital property
Nowadays, many hard-working people will have a good income before marriage, which is their pre-marital property. Before marriage, if you are not very confident about your future marriage, then choose to notarize your property before marriage to ensure your rights and interests. Moreover, it is necessary to discuss how to deal with the property after marriage if you accidentally divorce, and make it clear in advance, so you don't have to wait until something happens to regret it.
Second, ask the man questions when you are in love.
1. Can you do housework?
Housework is not difficult, but there are always people who think that washing and cooking are girls' business. When you are in love, you should ask boys if they can do laundry and cook, so that everyone can share housework together after marriage. If the man thinks that washing and cooking are things that girls do, and you think that these things are the responsibility of both parties, it may not be suitable for everyone to be together.
2. Can you tolerate yourself?
There will always be conflicts between men and women because of gender differences. When two sides quarrel, one side always needs tolerance. So let's see if the other person can tolerate themselves. If you know your shortcomings and are willing to be with you, it means that the other person really loves you.
3. Do you have feelings for yourself?
When two people are in love, if they really want to get married, then they need to ask each other if they really like themselves. Nowadays, many young people in society will choose a person with the right conditions to marry and stop pursuing love when they reach the age. But love is the basis of whether two people can go to the end, so we must ask clearly.
Summary:
This paper introduces in detail the contents that need to be talked about before marriage and the questions that should be asked to the man when falling in love. I believe everyone knows something about this article and I hope it will help you.