marriage registration
When marriageable men and women decide to get married, they need to register their marriage before the wedding. This is not only a guarantee for yourself, but also a respect for marriage.
Marriage registration is a system to supervise and manage the establishment of marriage relationship in China, which requires every man and woman who wants to get married to apply for a marriage certificate according to the procedures. There are generally four processes: obtaining a license, taking a wedding photo, verifying and registering for marriage. (Refer to relevant regulations)
In this process, many people will wonder whether a medical examination is required for marriage registration.
Physical examination is voluntary, and you can go directly to the registration authority to register without a physical examination. As early as 2003, China changed the premarital health examination from compulsory to voluntary, so there is no need to register for marriage now. However, if you want to ensure "prenatal and postnatal care", it is best to have a pre-marital physical examination, which can also provide sufficient protection for future parenting.
In short, if marriageable men and women consider getting married, they must abide by laws and regulations, register for marriage first, and then prepare for the wedding.
Wedding preparation
Wedding planning is not so complicated, just need to discuss more specific wedding planning matters, which can be divided into software and hardware.
1, wedding software preparation. Before the wedding, parents and newlyweds should decide the date, place, ceremony and wedding reception. In this process, they should try to neutralize the opinions of both sides and respect the wishes of both husband and wife. At the same time, the couple also need to discuss the wedding plan and determine the choice of the best man, bridesmaid and wedding personnel.
2, wedding hardware preparation. The layout of the wedding room, the preparations for the wedding day. Such as: local popular wedding customs, wedding photo arrangement, wedding makeup reservation, wedding car reservation, wedding banquet reservation, wedding camera reservation, and so on. (Note: If it's too much trouble, you can also ask a professional wedding planner to plan it. )
When everything is ready, both parties can invite relatives and friends to the wedding according to actual needs, mainly by sending invitations, supplemented by telephone communication, trying to ensure that all the people who need to be notified are in place and making detailed feedback records (in case someone can't come, it is convenient to save wedding resources).
Maybe you think the wedding is a complicated and grand ceremony, but we often waste manpower and financial resources in the actual wedding, which has little effect on the solemnity of the marriage itself.
The wedding is not how grand and luxurious it is, but the joy that the sincere feelings of the new people can be sublimated.
hold a wedding ceremony
Weddings are generally divided into Chinese and western styles. However, some couples choose to hold their wedding in a more personalized way, such as traveling (couples get married while traveling). Here we only talk about the more common wedding forms, and the more common wedding processes are generally divided into three processes.
1, confirmed the day before the wedding.
On the day before the wedding, the families, newlyweds and wedding personnel of both parties conducted a comprehensive and detailed communication on the completion of the wedding preparations to ensure that there were no accidents on the wedding day.
In addition, it is necessary to take foolproof measures, such as finally confirming the details of the wedding banquet, vehicles, photos, makeup and so on; A unanimous resistance to the phenomenon of "marital trouble" in the wedding process; The wedding should be festive and should not embarrass the other party.
2. The process of the wedding day.
The process of the wedding day is generally arranged according to the timeline, as follows:
Preparation before the wedding (5: 00 ~ 09: 00): The bride and groom start to make up, prepare the wedding car, small objects, the best man and bridesmaid, and prepare the wedding scene.
Grab the bride (9: 00 ~ 10: 00): the groom prepares flowers and red envelopes, and the bride hides new shoes at her parents' house; The groom leads the best man to the bride's door to handle the bridesmaids (knocking at the door, asking questions, stuffing red envelopes, squeezing the door, etc.). ); After the bride's door opened, the groom began to look for new shoes and promised love; The groom took the bride out, tied the ribbon, stepped on the balloon, and then boarded the wedding car and set off.
Wedding the bride (10: 00 ~11:00): When arriving at the new house, the groom will carry the bride into the house, tie the ribbon and step on the balloon; The bride offered tea to the man's parents (changed her mouth); If the wedding is held at home, you can wait for the auspicious ceremony at home. If the wedding reception is arranged in a hotel, you need to go to the hotel.
Wedding ceremony (usually at 12: 20): relatives and friends arrive on time, and the wedding master enters the presiding session. The bride and groom obey the arrangement and complete the etiquette under the witness of relatives and friends. Need to be reminded: if it is a Chinese marriage, you need to follow the relevant etiquette to worship the world; If it is a western-style wedding, the witness needs to exchange rings according to the relevant procedures.
Wedding reception (13:00~ 14:00 or so): The wedding reception officially begins. The bride and groom get dressed and start preparing a toast at one table (the toast needs to be arranged according to the actual situation.
After the wedding (1after 4: 00): guests leave one after another, or there are other small parties, and so on.
The whole day's wedding arrangements are spent in full swing, and the cooperation of many people is directly related to the final successful conclusion of the wedding, which requires us to follow the wedding plan as much as possible in the process of holding the wedding.
The bride returned to the door.
The bride's return to her parents' home, also known as "mothering", is a traditional custom in China, which generally refers to the bride's first return to her parents' home three days after marriage, and the time varies according to the customs in different regions.
The bride came home mainly to thank her parents for their kindness. "Going home in three days" is not only an emotional comfort to parents, but also an opportunity for daughters to talk to their parents and thank them for their parenting.
It should be noted that when the bride and groom return to the woman's home, the groom needs to pay special attention to the relatives and neighbors of the woman, show proper etiquette, and let the parents-in-law have face.
Of course, if there are other arrangements, there is no need to visit again. Newlyweds need to make specific arrangements according to the actual situation.