The reason for picking up the bride at midnight
Why get married in the middle of the night? In fact, there are two kinds of statements here. The first one is because in ancient books, marriage is actually "faint", that is, at dusk. When you get married, you should salute at dusk, which is the idea of harmony between man and nature. The second reason is that in ancient times, if the geographical location was not good, you might meet gangsters on the road, so you chose to secretly pick up the bride in the middle of the night to ensure her safety. And then it has been passed down to this day.
What do people who take care of their loved ones pay attention to?
1. It's better for people who pick up relatives to be unmarried. If you are a married elder, it is best not to get divorced or widowed.
The parents of the bride and groom can't attend seeing their relatives off, so they can only go to the hotel or wait for the new couple to come back at home.
3. It is best to pick up relatives with cheerful personality and people who can play together, which is conducive to adjusting the atmosphere at the scene.
It is also the custom in many places that auntie doesn't pick up and auntie doesn't send it. Because "aunt", "orphan" and "aunt" are all unlucky words in marriage, it is best for the man's aunt and the woman's aunt not to participate in the shuttle bus.
In many places, there is a custom of "going to the single and returning to the double", that is, the number of people who pick up the bride should be odd, and the number of people who pick up the bride should be even, which means "talking a lot, both are right". Therefore, the man's wedding should be singular, including the groom, and the woman's wedding should also be singular, including the bride, so as to ensure "going to the single and returning to the double." This figure does not include photography because they belong to the staff. In addition, it is best for both sides to communicate well in advance, and the number of people receiving relatives on both sides should not be too different, otherwise the one with fewer people will be slightly impolite.
Lucky words for the bride to get off the bus.
1, one step of peach blossom, two steps of plum blossom, three steps of lotus seed and four steps of attracting the groom.
2. The rainbow blooms in the air, and the fairies are admiring; BMW brings wealth, while Phoenix builds its nest.
3, enter the wedding room into the wedding room, don't panic when entering the wedding room, it is difficult to enter the wedding room, the bride takes out cigarettes and sugar.
4, let the bride let the bride, I stopped the bride from entering the bridal chamber, relatives and friends came to see how beautiful the bride is.
5. Welcome the new mother and the bride. I think the bride is very pretentious. Get off at one step, and get rich at the other, which is auspicious.
6. Bride-in-law Bride-in-law, earth-shattering firecrackers, men, women and children came to watch, laughing and dancing.
7. Seeing the bride coming to see the bride, the bride crossed the hall in three steps and one step at a time. I advised the bride to walk slowly and see the beautiful scenery in the yard.
8. When the bride gets off the sedan chair, she will be very lucky. When the bride enters the door, the financial resources are rolling; Bride straddles saddle, and Fulu is safe; The bride landed, and her children and grandchildren were full.
9. There are trees and bamboos at the door, and the wind blows green. This year is a happy event, and the doll will cry next year.