My hometown is Xixia, which is close to Tanghe River. Let me tell you something about the general engagement custom in this respect and see if I can help you. During the engagement ceremony, the man should buy gifts, bride price, banquets, etc. And most of the people who are engaged with the woman are her mother, aunt, sister-in-law and other relatives, and the wedding date is to be determined. After the engagement, the man will also prepare gifts to invite the woman to participate in the festival. During the engagement period, if the man proposes to dissolve the engagement, the gift money, engagement money and clothes paid by him are not needed, and the woman proposes to return them in full. The night before the wedding, please ask a child to sleep in a new bed, which is called "pressing the bed"; Also ask a married sister-in-law to scatter or put peanuts, dates, chopsticks and so on. Put it on the bedside to take the meaning of "early birth". Among them, peanuts must be raw, which means that the bride is going to give birth, and it is a boy and a girl. On the wedding day, we will decorate the new house, put up couplets, please play drums and entertain friends and relatives. Relatives and friends will also send some gifts. After the wedding, the couple entered the bridal chamber. Brothers, cousins and children ask the bride for wedding candy and money. Then the wedding reception begins. During the dinner, the groom will introduce relatives and friends to the bride and pour wine to show his respect.

There are some details when getting married. I told you to be prepared. On the morning of the wedding, the man sent a wedding team to the woman's house. After the woman's ceremonial reception, she carried the dowry items onto the wedding car. The woman's wedding team ranges from a few people to dozens of people, and follows the wedding car to find the man. When the team arrived near the man's home, the man sent a bunch of people to meet him, set off firecrackers, and withdrew his dowry, so that the "family" who saw him off could sit at the table early and avoid it; When the bride arrives at the door, the groom usually gets off her back and walks to the "Heaven and Earth Table", which is covered with red cloth or red paper, decorated with flowers, and affixed with the wedding ceremony, including setting off firecrackers, playing music, worshiping the heavens and the earth, bowing to guests, New Year greetings between husband and wife, exchanging gifts between husband and wife, speeches by witnesses, introducing the love process, congratulations from relatives and friends, etc. After the wedding, the newlyweds went into the bridal chamber and drank a glass of wine, while the younger brothers, cousins and children crowded into the bridal chamber and asked the bride for money and candy. Then entertain relatives, entertain guests and leave at dusk. In the evening, everyone drinks and plays, commonly known as "noisy room". ?

These are some things I know, and I hope I can help you. Besides, I wish you a happy engagement and marriage! ! !