Ultra-detailed wedding process
1. Wedding preparation
1. 1. Decide the wedding date, place, ceremony and wedding reception method.
1.2. Determine the wedding budget
1.3. Draw up the guest list
1.4. Call a good friend to discuss the wedding plan.
1.5. Determine the best man and bridesmaid.
1.6. Determine the wedding witness
Preparation before the wedding
2. 1. Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding.
2. 1. 1. Communicate with parents about wedding planning and progress.
2. 1.2. Send happy messages to relatives and friends.
2. 1.3. Call relatives and friends in other places.
2. 1.4. Confirmation of attendance of relatives and friends
2. 1.5. Determine the auxiliary staff on the wedding day, and define the division of labor (coordination between men and women, hotel coordination, fireworks display, hotel welcome, wedding sign-in, wedding candy distribution, wedding site and hotel new house layout, wedding car, photography).
2. 1.6. Draw a sketch of the wedding reception site, indicating the relatives and friends at each table.
2. 1.7. Both men and women welcome guests, and the bride and groom are familiar with the sketch of the wedding banquet and the seating of relatives and friends of all parties.
2. 1.8. Making wedding cards
2. 1.9. Make wedding plans and determine the list of relevant personnel and contact information.
2.2. Buy wedding supplies
2.2. 1. New furniture
2.2. 1. 1. Household appliances and furniture
2.2. 1.2. Bedding
2.2.2. Wedding supplies ordering
2.2.2. 1. Wedding dresses of the bride and groom
2.2.2.2. Wedding ring.
2.2.2.3. Bride cosmetic
2.2.2.4. Wedding stickers, red envelopes and happy characters.
2.2.2.5. Red Ribbon, Ribbon, Pull Flowers, Easy-to-pull Firecrackers (or Petals), Colored Balloons, Candles, Wide Double-sided Adhesive Tape and Transparent Tape, Festive Articles, Full Set of Happy Characters, Cold Fireworks (as the case may be), Sign-in Book-Renmin Road, Chenghuang Temple.
2.2.2.6. Tobacco, wine and drinks.
2.2.2.7. Sugar, peanuts, melon seeds, tea.
2.2.2.8. Movies.
2.2.2.9. Flowers and fruits.
2.3. Preparation of bride and groom images
2.3. 1. The bride starts to take care of her skin.
2.3.2. The groom cuts his hair
2.4. Decorate the new house
2.5. Determine the wedding host (or wedding company)
2.5. 1. Communicate with them the plans and ideas of the wedding day.
2.6. Wedding reservation
2.6. 1. Estimate the number of guests
2.6.2. Estimate the number of banquets
2.6.3. Choose the location of the wedding banquet
2.6.4. Confirm the banquet menu and price.
2.6.5. Confirm the acoustic effect of the wedding banquet.
2.6.6. Coordinate the wedding banquet arrangement and other details with the hotel.
2.6.7. Book a banquet
2.7. Wedding Makeup Appointment
2.7. 1. Choose a place for makeup.
2.7.2. Communicate with makeup artists
2.7.3. Confirm the shape of the wedding day.
2.7.4. Make an appointment for the specific time of makeup.
2.8. Wedding car reservation
2.8. 1. Determine the number of wedding cars.
2.8.2. Make an appointment to tie the float.
2.8.3. Determine the driving route and required time of the wedding car on the wedding day.
2.8.4. Booking a wedding car
2.9. Wedding camera reservation
2.9. 1. Determine the number of photographs and videos.
2.9.2. Choose a photographer for the wedding day.
2.9.3. Arrange the division of labor between photography and video recording.
2.9.4. Prepare photographic equipment and films and videos.
2.9.5. Make an appointment for photography.
2. 10. Others
2. 10. 1.
2. 10.2. Determine the child who presses the bed
2. 10.3. Prepare guest rooms for friends and relatives from afar.
Prepare the day before the wedding
3. 1. Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding.
3. 1. 1. Communicate with parents about the completion of wedding preparations.
3. 1.2. Make final communication with the preparatory group on the preparation and division of labor on the wedding day.
3. 1.3. According to the preparation, communicate with the host about the ceremony flow on the wedding day.
3. 1.4. Communicate with the best man and bridesmaid again.
3. 1.5. Finally confirm the relatives and friends who helped.
3. 1.6. finally confirm the details, vehicles, photos and makeup of the wedding banquet.
3.2. Confirm the preparation of the speaker on the wedding day.
3.2. 1. Preparation of witnesses' speeches
3.2.2. Preparation of Parents' Representatives' Speech
3.2.3. Preparation of guest representatives' speeches
(as the case may be)
3.2.4. Preparation of the bride at the wedding
3.2.5. Problems that the bride and groom may encounter in the wedding or bridal chamber.
3.3. Finally confirm the preparation of all items on the wedding day.
3.3. 1. Finally try on all the clothes.
3.3.2. Put all the clothes to be worn on the wedding day in your pockets.
3.3.3. Prepare two bottles of fake wine
3.3.4. Prepare fast food and dry food for the bride and groom, and prepare drinks, fruits, flowers and disposable cups for the guests placed in the bridal chamber on the wedding day.
3.3.5. Finally, count all items, hand them over to a special person for safekeeping, and make a list of items.
3.3.5. 1. Bride's new shoes
3.3.5.2. The ring.
3.3.5.3 Hongbao
3.3.5.4. Wear jewelry.
3.3.5.5. Bride cosmetic box
3.3.5.6. Sugar, cigarettes, wine, tea and drinks.
3.3.5.7. Fireworks props
The bride and groom are specially prepared.
3.4. 1. The bride and groom are familiar with the wedding procedures repeatedly.
3.4.2. Rehearse the action of holding the bride.
3.4.3. Wedding rehearsal catwalk
3.4.4. Rehearse the action of making a glass of wine.
3.4.5. Relax and encourage each other.
3.4.6. Pay attention to sleep and go to bed early.
4. Wedding Day Process
4. 1. Composition/make-up/make-up/fabrication/reconciliation/configuration/make-up/bed (s)
4.2. Final confirmation of arrival time of wedding car, photography and camera.
4.2. 1. Vehicle layout
4.3. Welcome the bride
4.3. 1. Go to the bride's house
4.3. 1. 1 The groom prepares flowers and red envelopes.
4.3. 1.2 Notify the bride before going out.
4.3. 1.3 Notify the wedding firecrackers preparation 10 minutes before arrival.
4.3. 1.4 Ask questions to the bride's relatives and friends to obstruct (dispensable), and put a red envelope before admission.
4.3. 1.5 The bride asks questions and the groom promises.
4.3. 1.6 The groom offered tea to the woman's parents and took a group photo.
4.3. 1.7 longan, lotus plumule and jujube (boiled egg) soup (depending on the habit)
4.3. 1.8 Before going out, the bride said goodbye to her parents, and the groom promised her parents that they would bless her.
4.3. 1.9 preparation of firecrackers
4.3.2. Go to the groom's house
4.3.2. 1 Before arrival 10 minutes to inform the wedding firecrackers to prepare.
4.3.2.2 man's parents are ready to welcome red envelopes.
4.3.2.3 bride sends tea to the man's parents and takes a group photo.
4.3.2.4 Longan Lotus Heart and Jujube Soup (Shuipu Egg) (depending on custom)
4.3.2.5 said goodbye to his parents before going out, and his parents wished him all the best.
4.3.2.6 firecrackers preparation
4.3.3. Location shooting
4.4. Hotel preparation
4.4. 1. Bring sugar, cigarettes, wine, tea, drinks and holiday candles to the hotel wedding room.
4.4.2. Hotel Wedding Room Layout
4.4.3. Finally, check the banquet arrangement, sound system, sign-in desk and other details.
4.5. Welcome to the hotel
4.5. 1. The bride and groom go to the hotel to rest and make up their makeup.
4.5.2. Check-in desk personnel are in place.
4.5.3. Welcome personnel to take their positions at the door.
4.5.4. The bride and groom, the best man and the maid of honor greet the guests at the door.
4.6. Wedding (depending on the arrangement of the wedding company)
4.6. 1. Host preparation, voice preparation, ring preparation, petals and ribbons preparation.
4.6.2. Play music, newcomers enter, ribbons (petals)
4.6.3. Introduction by the host
4.6.4. Speech by the officiating person
4.6.5. Newcomer's parents come to power
4.6.6. The bride and groom exchange rings and bow three times.
4.6.7. Parents' representatives of both parties speak.
4.6.8. Newcomers open champagne and cut cakes. Cheers.
4.7. Wedding reception
4.8. Make trouble in the bridal chamber
4.9. Check all items before leaving the hotel.
Expanding: Western-style church wedding process
As the soul of the whole wedding, the wedding ceremony should be an important factor to determine the whole wedding style on that day. Many newcomers like the solemnity and sacredness of church ceremonies. How to hold a wedding in a church? What are the precautions? Let's explain them one by one.
Church choice
Before you make the overall planning, you will definitely choose the venue of the ceremony and invite the priest or priest. Because the fees and specific requirements vary from place to place, it is necessary for you to ask in advance what restrictions and specific fees the church has. Many places are free, or can be used with a small donation, while some places require fees or special permission.
By the way, what are the standard services in the ceremony? How much freedom do you have to arrange the scene according to your own wishes? You also need to know what services and equipment will be provided there. For example, are there any restrictions on music, cleaning, decoration, corridors, carpets, music and photography?
seating arrangement
Of course, you must choose a church big enough to hold the ceremony, so that all the people present feel spacious and comfortable.
1. Seating arrangements for couples' families
You need to reserve some seats in the front row for your closest family. Traditionally, the bride's parents, grandparents and siblings sit on the left in the first row. If the bride's parents are divorced.
I hope we can sit separately, so that the bride's mother can sit in the first row with her current husband and the father and his wife can sit in the second row. Other special relatives can also sit in the second and third rows. The groom's family sits on the right hand side in the same way.
The best man showed the guests to their seats.
When your guests arrive, the best man will show them to their seats. Like the bride's family, the bride's guests sit on the left and the groom's guests sit on the right. But if there are many guests on one side, the easiest way is to let them sit casually on both sides to ensure that every guest can watch the ceremony well. The best man should ask the female guests to sit down with his right hand, so that the male guests don't have to worry about these. If a large number of guests arrive at the same time, the elderly will be given priority.
After the ceremony, the families sitting in the first few rows left first.
Then the guests leave in rows from beginning to end so as not to cause congestion at the door.
Step into the church
During the ceremony, when you step into the church and step on the carpet, there are many things worthy of attention besides moving forward step by step. The following is the basic lineup of advance and retreat.
standing position
When entering the aisle on the carpet, the bride usually stands on the left and the groom stands on the right, facing the priest. The best man stood next to the groom, and the ring man and the best man stood on his right. The bridesmaid stood next to the bride, and the other bridesmaids and flower girl stood on her left.
Admission order
The best man entered through the church gate and lined up in pairs from short to high. If the number of people is odd, please ask the shortest person to walk alone in front and one-on-one behind. There are 3-4 rows between each pair. Next, the bridesmaids enter the venue, keeping a distance of 4-5 rows from the last pair of groomsmen. If the number of bridesmaids is less than five, enter the venue in a line, otherwise it will be uncoordinated. If the number of people is odd, the shortest one goes ahead and leads the team. The young bridesmaid group members walk in front of the main bridesmaid. If there are two bridesmaids, you can go in pairs or alone. Before the bride and her father went in, it was Jie Tong and flower girl. These people stood behind the aisle, and the bride took her father's left arm and walked into the church. If the bride is wearing a long skirt or a long veil, two people can be arranged to hold the wedding dress behind her.
Exit sequence
After the ceremony, a couple went first, followed by Jietong and flower girl. The members of the bridesmaid group and the best man group are in pairs. The bridesmaids should go first and walk on the right of the best man. If the number of people is odd, a best man will escort two bridesmaids away; One more best man went alone, and the two formed a pair and marched at the same time. When the procession goes to the door or the back of the wedding, the designated best man will go back to escort the bride's mother, grandmother and some distinguished guests out.
Choose music
Nothing can enhance the atmosphere of your wedding like music. Rites and music are strictly divided into overture, entrance song and exit song.
Overture: Played 45 minutes before the ceremony, with some classic songs for the guests to enjoy. The singer's live singing is also suitable to be arranged before the entrance song rings.
Entrance song: When the entrance team lines up, it's time to play the entrance song. Newcomers, bridesmaids and groomsmen solemnly walked onto the carpet with the rhythm of music. Although it is not necessary, some newcomers still hope to hear beautiful and soothing music during the ceremony.
Exit song: Next, the exit song. When the couple leave, it will be a cheerful and uplifting moment.
Music is a service, so there is a charge. Discuss and arrange the fees paid to the players in advance. If your friends or relatives perform, it is not convenient for you to pay, and it is also a good reward to send a nice little gift.
Reading and praying
You can ask the priest to help you decide what to read. For a very strict religious wedding, you should choose the classic passages in the Bible. Not so traditional and formal, you can choose a poem that can express your feelings about marriage well.
You can also distribute different excerpts to friends and relatives to read aloud. In this way, more friends close to you will have the opportunity to join your wedding, and they will be honored if you invite them.
Make vows to each other
Taking an oath is a way to express the solemnity and uniqueness of your ceremony. You can choose to recite the oath at the ceremony, but if you are afraid of forgetting the words because of nervousness, you can also choose to read aloud or answer the questions raised by the priest directly, such as "I promise …" and "I will always …"
Personalized selection
A variety of choices are enough to make your ceremony unique. Besides carefully choosing rituals, vows and prayers, we should also choose some national customs or learn from other forms according to our own cultural and emotional background. For example, candlelight ceremony has always been a fixed form of church wedding, but now it has become a popular form of cross-cultural communication. There should be three big white candles on the aisle, two of which symbolize that the love between newlyweds will last forever. After taking the oath, the couple lights the third candle, which is the "concentric candle".