But when the woman goes to the man's house, the parents and main relatives of both sides meet and get to know each other. When a woman buys some gifts, it will involve the issue of gift money. As for how much to give, one is agreed in advance, and the other is how much to give, depending on the conditions. Generally speaking, however, in-laws have not been married for long, and some people may have talked about this issue at that time. But these are all habits, and it doesn't have to be like this.