When I came to the door of marriage, one step forward was the happiness I wanted. At this time, I will not pay attention to the form of the wedding, as long as I like the people around me, a grand wedding or a simple wedding, I can accept it.
Whether the married life is happy or not has little to do with the wedding form, but ultimately depends on how two people get along. My wife and I have been married for five years. Our wedding is a very traditional rural ceremony, not luxurious and grand, but simple. But our life is still happy, and we are still willing to humble ourselves for each other and work hard for our future life.
I have a friend who spent a lot of money to hire a professional team when she got married, but the marriage didn't last long and she divorced. Two people quarrel every day, and even a grand wedding can't maintain such a marriage.
In fact, what marriage life will be like mainly depends on the emotional foundation and way of getting along between two people. Wedding form is just a kind of respect, just a process.
I don't pay much attention to the wedding form, as long as I feel happy. Marriage is the most critical step in a person's happiness. As long as you choose the right person, as long as both people can feel happiness in marriage, even if there is no wedding, life is still enviable.
The purpose of marriage is for the happiness of life, and entering marriage is only to have a better platform to manage emotions. Therefore, I have never felt how important the wedding form is.
As long as I can marry the person I like, even if it is only a simple wedding ceremony, I feel that happiness will overflow from my heart.
In real life, too many people pay too much attention to the wedding form, but don't consider the real situation between two people. When the wedding form becomes an important burden, the more grand the wedding is, the greater the contradiction between the two people.
Everything we do is for the happiness of life, and the form of wedding is also to pave the way for marriage. Never put the cart before the horse.