There are two kinds of marriage, one is that female parents sell their daughters to male families, and the other is that men and women form new families independently. Although these two kinds of marriages are the same externally, they are completely different internally. An independent woman is the property of her parents before marriage and the property of her husband's family after marriage, and she must get a bride price to complete this transaction.
An independent person, her parents support her, let her go when she grows up, let her become her own master and decide who to marry. Parents want this bride price for tradition, and they will also consider the amount that the other party can bear. In short, they will never delay their happiness for a false face. Eating salted fish is thirsty, and the chosen person can cope with it himself.
Don't reason with greedy people, they will find thousands of excuses for their greed: customs, parents' kindness, neighbors' comments and so on. Then why not take lies as the pillar of society? If one day everyone stops telling lies, within a day, mankind will probably become extinct. People who always want a bride price are good for their children. Ask yourself, you really think so!
A mature man will share your responsibility and pay more love. If that boy doesn't, it's back to choosing a man. It is ridiculous to say that it is necessary to test men, so the logic of bride price is ridiculous. Your own man still has to pass the test to know what his essence is, whether he is capable or not, and whether he is sincere to you.
I really hate it when some people slogan equality between men and women at ordinary times, but waiting for such an important person to pay and asking men to take responsibility is not true equality. Happiness is not measured and calculated. Happiness needs mentality, wisdom and understanding.
The bride price is the guarantee given by the man to the woman's parents. It is good to have a heart.