But is it really so expensive? After all, Shanghai is a city in China. Instead of looking for a fairy, just find an ordinary girl who lives like a snail girl, and you don't need that much money to marry a Shanghai woman.
Shanghai women are not all princesses, but most of them are the daughters of ordinary people. If you want a model's figure and a star's appearance, women in any big city will not be cheap.
But give the landlord some reference values to see:
1. House
It doesn't have to be done in one step. Buy something that can be used for marriage first, and then change to a good one when you have money later.
A new house (2 rooms, 1 hall, 1 bathroom, about 70 square meters, urban area) at the terminal of subway 1 line, with an average price of 15000- 17000 yuan, with only a down payment of 20%./kloc-0. Pay off the rest of the mortgage slowly.
2. Decoration, mainly formal decoration, 70 square meters, base 65438+ 0.200 yuan per square meter, totaling 85,000 yuan.
3. Electricity and household appliances, 50,000 yuan. Now the LCD TV is smaller, with a 37-inch TV set of more than 3,000, 2 bedrooms and a domestic sofa coffee table. In China market, the furniture made in China occupies more than half of the market, and foreigners can't sit on their asses. Can't you sit on your ass?
4. If you have no money, take the subway and take a taxi. Shanghainese advocate living within our means. Don't joke about it. There are many options for 80- 15000 cars if they are just hitchhiking. A license plate, 30 thousand. 0- 1.8 million.
5. Holding a wedding banquet, taking 40 tables in a medium-sized hotel as an example, including the wine and cigarettes, is 3000× 40 =1.2000. The average red envelope is 4,000 yuan per table, that is, 4,000× 40 = 1 .6 million (Shanghainese are proud to give out red envelopes, 500-800 per person, but they can't get rid of1,000- 1, 800, making 40,000), and they didn't give them to their guests.
You don't have to go to Hawaii, Europe, Australia or Japan for your honeymoon trip. Singapore and Mattel can. Sanya, Lijiang and Tibet are all good scenery. Foreign devils came all the way to see it. It's not too bad, is it The per capita expenditure is 3000-5000 yuan, that is, 3000-5000×2 = 0.6- 1 000.
7. From falling in love to deciding to get married, including going out for dinner, buying gifts, entertainment, traveling, and giving holiday gifts to girlfriend's parents, the average monthly price is 1000 yuan (Shanghai husband doesn't necessarily smoke, and he doesn't necessarily want Mao's son-in-law to give any heavy gifts, except for the first time. Shanghai people are considerate and have good feelings, and they also gave a fruit gift box of 100 yuan. The meanness and subtlety in Shanghai culture are often reviled by netizens all over the country, which shows its superiority on this occasion. When two people go out to eat, they don't have to go to a good restaurant. Shouldn't a girl who can't bring a stable income to her family learn to be frugal? Go to KFC and McDonald's! 60 yuan's done. If you travel, go to the suburbs or Suzhou and Hangzhou, and the round-trip cost on the same day is not big. ) 1 year is1000×12× =10.2 million.
As for the bride price, the practice in Shanghai is similar to that in the West. Ordinary families are working-class, and do not accept bride price. Only low-level families or suburban counties accept it. 9. There is no engagement party, which is directly solved once and for all. 10. Send wedding candy, each person 20 yuan, 500 copies, 500× 20 =1w1. Who else has a watch? Jewelry, if a woman is not an ordinary citizen, anything can be sloppy except a diamond ring, so 35 thousand is enough. Shanghai is not your hometown, so many people who come here are their relatives, nothing like the north. Whether they know it or not, there are the most people at table 65, 438+0-2. Maybe my mother-in-law can cook for herself. Ignore 13. Wedding etiquette, car rental, salute and other expenses10,000.14. Wedding photos, wedding videos and other expenses 1 ten thousand. (7000+ for the wedding in Paris) In summary, the total cost is 22+8.5+5+0-4+65438.
The most valuable property of the man's family is the house, but the old couple can't leave the house for their son's marriage. If the man's family does not support it, the man's annual income is 65,438+10,000 yuan, (40-0)/ 10 = 4 years. If he is a master's student in a key university and a popular major, he can earn an annual salary of100000 as soon as he graduates.
From the above, the most is the down payment for buying a house. Family planning in Shanghai is very good. Girls under 30 are all only children. Generally speaking, it is not necessary for a woman to have a house. It is always possible to subsidize some-of course, it depends on whether others are willing or not-it is easier.
Finally, the conclusion is optimistic: if a man doesn't eat or drink, as long as he works for 4 years = taking a job at the age of 25 as an example, he can marry a wife with upper-middle class conditions in Shanghai at the age of 29.
Shanghai is a big city with fierce competition. Only with a degree can you find a good job. With education and skills, you can marry a decent woman anywhere. Girls in big cities in a foreign land are unprepared for the losers who come out to wander the rivers and lakes before 18 years old.