Some parents should have discovered when educating their children that children are like a fragile flower and can't accept any "destruction" from the outside world.
It is often adults who think this is a trivial matter, but children care very much, even crying all the time, and it is not good.
I met a cousin who was shopping in the supermarket the other day. I was curious to ask her why she didn't take the children out for a walk. Not to mention nothing. Speaking of my little nephew, my cousin suddenly looked reluctant. It's really hard to tell me about her children.
In my impression, my little nephew is a boy who pays special attention to details. Every time I eat out, I clean a small area in front of my desk. When I eat fried rice with eggs, I will patiently pick out the carrots inside.
But in my cousin's description, the child is a little "kid". The child got up a little late two days ago. My cousin was anxious to feed the child breakfast. She was afraid of being late for kindergarten.
After dinner, the child went to wash his hands, and water droplets splashed on his collar, and a small piece of clothes got wet. In the cousin's view, this is a normal thing, but the child is clamoring to change clothes on the spot.
Cousin is busy sending her children to school and then punching in at work. How can she have time to change clothes for her children? But the child just won't go out when he is pestering, so there is no way. My cousin can only change his clothes.
In the evening, my cousin finished her day's work and hurried home to cook for the whole family. My nephew helped my mother take the plate out of the kitchen, but accidentally broke a bowl on the way.
Cousin and cousin quickly cleaned up the broken glass on the ground and kept the child away from this place for fear that he might accidentally step on it. Obviously, it was a gentle tone, and there was no intention of criticizing the child. The nephew still cried loudly.
This kind of thing happens almost every day, and my cousin is particularly devastated. Why is it so difficult for her own children? Isn't a little doll so sensitive every day?
In fact, many parents find their children a little over-sensitive. The biggest feature of such children is that they are difficult to get along with, and sometimes parents don't know how to solve the problem.
1, pay special attention to details.
A child with a highly sensitive personality is very concerned about the details of life. He can observe the subtle changes of everyone. This kind of child is very sensitive to sounds and smells. Sometimes they can't stand other people's sounds that sound normal, and they get crazy when they hear them.
2. The mood fluctuates greatly.
This kind of child's mood fluctuates greatly every day, and his mood seems to be riding a roller coaster. One minute he may be laughing, and the next he will be crying. The reason for this change may be what others said or did to him. He cares too much about what others think of him, and it is easy to change his mood because of small details.
3. The sense of responsibility is particularly heavy
Highly sensitive children have a strong sense of responsibility since childhood, and parents may find that their children are particularly sensible since childhood and have not worried about it.
1, accept the reality
Highly sensitive children's moods change greatly. Sometimes parents can't understand the reasons for crying, and they feel that their baby is too melodramatic and has been a blx since childhood.
When the child collapses, if the parents are impatient, the child will suppress his heart after a long time, and psychological problems will easily occur after a long time.
Therefore, parents should accept the reality, hug their children when they cry because of a trivial matter, and give them enough sense of security, instead of simply and rudely handling them.
2. Not used to it.
Many children are highly sensitive, probably because they have a pair of doting parents. This kind of parents will unconditionally meet all the requirements of their children, even if the children do something wrong, they will not criticize them and always go away.
Children who grow up in this kind of family will also ask others to treat themselves like their parents when they grow up. I can't accept what I don't like, and I don't know how to spend it when I encounter setbacks.
Step 3 encourage children
Most children are highly sensitive, probably because they are influenced by the environment. Children are inherently insecure. If parents don't give them enough love and encouragement, they will become inferior and sensitive. What parents should do is to let their children discover their own advantages and encourage them to become more confident.
Every child has his own unique advantages, even if he is highly sensitive, he has excellent qualities. Parents should be good at exploring and guiding their children to become better.