1. There will definitely be some intersections between the families of the two sides on holidays, which may not be considered as in-depth exchanges, but basic mutual understanding and basic etiquette should be done. Maybe the two families don't always communicate closely, but your newly formed family should serve as a bridge between the two sides.
2. As one party, you should try to blend into the other party's circle. After all, your little family and these relatives will have many days. Even if you live in a city, meet occasionally or on some good days, be polite.
After marriage, your family is more integrated into the circle of friends and relatives on both sides than into the circle of friends and relatives on both sides. Therefore, as the most direct communication, your small family should adapt in time. After all, after all, you are all relatives, and proper integration and communication are necessary.
Maybe the relatives of both sides are far apart, or maybe the families of both sides don't communicate often. But your new family should communicate in time, visit each other's home often and try to get to know each other's parents, so as to better maintain this close relationship.
Although you formed a new family after marriage, it doesn't mean that you are completely independent. This means that you have entered each other's circle of friends and relatives. If you can't integrate, it is also a disrespect for the other family. You can not adapt to the living habits of some relatives, but basic manners must always be maintained.
We should also integrate into each other's family atmosphere after marriage. After all, there will be frequent exchanges for many years to come. It doesn't matter if you're not used to it. Just take your time. After all, you don't need to be together often or often. It is really necessary to know some basic problems and environment.
Since you have chosen to get married and form a new family, you can't just consider both sides in front of you, but also consider each other's families. Of course, marriage is a matter of two people after all, and the choice is the love of two people together, but after the choice, it is more to become the close family of the other party and become a member of the other family.
It may not be possible to know everything and do everything right, but it is necessary to maintain basic respect and maintain basic contact and get along. Only in this way can we gradually integrate into each other's circles and become closer family members.