Recently, Yishui County, Linyi City, Shandong Province put forward the orientation of wedding bride price? Suggested bride price 1 10,000 yuan? And vigorously advocate rich wedding forms such as group wedding, commemorative wedding and charity wedding. This move has been recognized and praised by the masses!
At the same time, Xiao Shui advocates that the bride price should not exceed 10,000 yuan, and the wedding banquet should not exceed ten tables and six wedding cars. Everything should be simple! Relevant personnel are required to take a warning from this matter and regain civilized and thrifty social morality.
Tell a real case around you! My brother's children get married, because in the countryside, the object of discussion is also the countryside in the same county. Our county is still a poverty-stricken county, and the economic strength of the two counties is similar. But have you ever thought about the engagement flower 1.2 million? Marriage is a bride price, up to hundreds of thousands! This is really something I experienced personally, and it is incredible to think about it now.
As an educator, I advocate keeping my nephew's marriage simple, because my conversation carries considerable weight in the family. At that time, I once proposed to get married, but the problem lies in the woman's family, because the woman has a younger brother who just graduated from college this year. In fact, everyone can understand more or less, so colorful gifts are nothing more than leaving a fee for my brother, or the other party has already said it!
But feelings are two people's business. As someone else, I still can't persuade anything. It finally comes down to my nephew's own choice. There is no way. Relatives around can only pay for him. After marriage, the young couple paid their debts together. Life is really not that easy now, and my nephew is under great pressure.
Now every year when I go home for the New Year, I will hear the young couple complain that the economy is not good today, they haven't made any money, they can't pay off so many debts and so on! I can only say that I knew it long ago, so why did I do it in the first place? Don't the woman's family feel a little guilty? I married my daughter to give her a good life. Now, because of this marriage, the young couple are burdened with heavy debts and mental stress. How can they be happy?
Reflecting on the bride price incident is actually looking at people! After receiving the bride price, many people added some and gave it back to the man. The purpose is to make daughters live a happy life and help them build a beautiful family as much as possible. However, the commercialization of bride price makes people have different ideas.
In the past, it was really easy to get married in our time. As long as the young couple see it right and the family knows it, they will sit down for a meal, go through a wedding process, worship their ancestors and share a ancestral home. This has become a reality, and everyone around you knows that you are married and have a veritable relationship.
On the other hand, most marriages are held in hotels now, and sometimes people don't even know if they are married, which makes the meaning of marriage very heavy. Or how many young men and women in today's society can't be together because of the bride price, which is really a pity! In the end, I did marry a person with better economic conditions, but are you really happy when you go back?