Let's start with Beijing. When I was working in Beijing, I was in contact with colleagues or college students from Internet companies and attended more than 20 weddings. When attending the wedding, neither the aborigines in Beijing nor the northern drifters from other places talked about the bride price money. Generally speaking, Beipiao couples are young couples who spend money together to buy a down payment. If you can't afford the down payment, you will also buy a house in your hometown with money. There is no question of how much bride price the woman wants.
Let's talk about the marriage of foreign students. It's been seven years since I graduated from the interesting evaluation university, and my classmates are getting married one after another. In order to attend my classmate's wedding, I traveled all over several cities. Interesting college students all have stable jobs, and the economic status of both husband and wife is relatively equal. When the man buys a house, the woman marries him to buy a car. There is no such thing as a sky-high bride price. In fact, if the woman has a stable job and both parents have stable jobs in the city, the so-called bride price money is not much at all, but more symbolic, or both parents give the young couple the capital to start a family.
Finally, I would like to talk about the sky-high bride price in my hometown and countryside. About 20 years ago, Brother Fun got married and needed a bride price of 8,000 yuan, plus a color TV, a set of furniture and a gold ring. Even so, interesting parents did everything they could, borrowed a lot of foreign debts and helped eldest brother marry his eldest sister-in-law. When I saw this situation at that time, I knew very well that if I didn't go to college by my own efforts, I'm afraid my family couldn't help me get a wife. Now interesting reviews are a small fortune, so it is not a problem to buy a two-bedroom commercial house in Shenyang. However, the interesting critic will never marry a girl who wants a bride price. It's not that she can't afford the money, but that she is uneconomical.
Qu Ping's niece just got engaged, and the bride price 1.5 million, plus a rural house and three gold, that is, gold rings, gold necklaces and gold earrings. This is still close to the people's bride price, and many girls have already bid up to 200,000. It can be said that it is impossible to marry a daughter-in-law, bride price money, house and various banquets in the countryside without the cost of 300 thousand. How much money can farmers save after a hard year? A couple who have worked hard for 20 years may be enough to marry their son, and they are the kind of couples who scrimp and save.
Then, why is it not worthwhile to marry a girl who wants a bride price in the countryside? If it is ancient, or before, marry a woman and splash water. After a daughter gets married, she doesn't need to undertake her family's business or divide her family's property. Nowadays, rural girls not only need bride price, but also bear all kinds of obligations of their parents after marriage. Is it a loss? What's more, which successful girls have you seen asking for bride price money?
Welcome to discuss. Do you think it is a loss to marry a girl who wants a bride price?