By analyzing the above data, we can draw a conclusion that more and more young people choose not to get married, and the overall marriage rate in China is decreasing.
Seeing this, I believe many people have the same doubts: Why do so many young people choose not to get married?
In fact, I think there are three main reasons why young people don't get married, that is, they dare not get married, don't want to get married, and can't get married.
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The cost of marriage and childbirth is too high for young people to get married.
In today's society, the cost of a couple entering the marriage hall is really too high. According to the conventional calculation, before getting married, you need to buy a house, a car, prepare a bride price or dowry, prepare a wedding banquet and take wedding photos. Every item needs money.
After marriage, the young couple have to live on their own, and their daily expenses such as rice, oil and salt need to be borne by themselves. Relatives of both sides will follow suit and give their parents the necessary filial piety on New Year's Day.
After the wife is pregnant, she needs to buy nutrition, have a pregnancy check-up and have a baby. After the child is born, he needs to buy milk powder, diapers, children's clothes and toys. If the child is sick, he should take him to see a doctor.
When children grow up, they should enroll in early education classes and interest classes to pay for education from kindergarten to university.
This is just the cost of a family with one child. With the liberalization of the national birth policy, many couples will have a second child and a third child, and the money they need will increase exponentially.
For young people, it is in the primary stage of career development, and the accumulation of wealth has just begun. The wealth base is very weak, and some even are "moonlight clan". It's hard to support yourself, let alone bear such a huge cost of getting married and having children.
Therefore, many young people will be scared off by the high cost of marriage and childbirth and dare not get married.
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Pursuing independence and freedom, young people don't want to get married
With the development of society, great changes have taken place in the marriage and love thoughts of a new generation of young people. They like to pursue independence and freedom, and don't want to be bound, let alone bound by others.
Qian Zhongshu once said: "Marriage is like a besieged city. People outside want to go in and people inside want to come out. "
Many young people are hesitant. They haven't had enough fun and enjoyed the world. They don't want to be bound by the "besieged city" of marriage early, nor do they want to give up the whole "forest" for a "tree".
So many young people don't want to get married, and want to live a few more years as "single aristocrats".
In addition, some young people's parents have bad feelings or divorce. Influenced by their family background, they don't believe in love and marriage, have instinctive resistance to marriage, and prefer to be unmarried.
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Young people can't get married without a marriage partner.
At present, China has entered an aging society, the problem of aging population is decreasing the marriageable age population, and the "main force" of marriage is decreasing, resulting in some young people unable to find a marriage partner and get married.
Coupled with the fact that young people are afraid to get married and don't want to get married, the marriage rate in China has been declining, and the fertility rate is also decreasing, which has aggravated the aging of the population and formed a vicious circle.
At the same time, the proportion of men and women in China is unbalanced, and there are more men than women in general.
According to the data of the sixth national census, the population of mainland China is1339,724,900, of which the male population is 686,852,600, accounting for 51.27%; The female population is 652,872,300, accounting for 48.73%. The sex ratio of the total population (female 100, male-female ratio) is 105.20.
As can be seen from the above data, the difference between men and women is more than 30 million, which means that more than 30 million men can't find a partner and can't get married.
In addition, some young people can't find a lover because of their introversion and lack of love skills. Even blind dates are always rejected and become "single mothers and babies".
There are also some young people who can't make a positive result every time they fall in love. After a period of love, they will break up and never walk into the marriage hall again.
Therefore, many young people have no marriage partners and cannot get married by themselves.
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Write it at the end
Marriage is a major event in life. Only with marriage can there be a family, a marriage society can be more stable, and only with marriage can human beings reproduce the next generation, human society can be endless, and human civilization can be passed down from generation to generation.
Now many young people are afraid of getting married, don't want to get married, and can't get married. There are social reasons as well as their own.
Due to social reasons, there are some institutional problems that cannot be completely changed for a while, and it takes time to adjust and improve them slowly.
The only thing we can do now is to change ourselves, change our views on marriage and love, let ourselves settle down as soon as possible, learn some necessary love skills, be willing to open up, find the right marriage partner, and join hands with them to enter the marriage hall and spend a lifetime together.
In this way, we can explain our parents' talents, make contributions to society and reap our own happiness.