Girlfriend wants 200 thousand bride price. If it's her parents' opinion, it's definitely no problem. It should be, no problem. If it's my girlfriend or myself, that's another matter. We should think about the reason. As long as we understand the cause and effect, the psychological burden will be eliminated.

Is it easy to raise a child now? Is it a boy or a girl? The answer is not easy. It takes 365 * 20 = 7300 days for a child to be raised to 20 years old from birth to 120 kg. According to 20 yuan's calculation, his daily meal is 7300 * 20 = 146000 yuan. How much is the tuition for going to school? What is the nanny's salary? How much is the tuition for going to college? And how much is the medical expenses for illness in these 20 years? How to calculate these, how to calculate. Raising a boy is no problem. If you raise a girl, you should be more concerned than a boy, because you should be alert to the bad guys bullying the little girl.

The cost of raising a child is incalculable. If you want to count, it must be more than 200 thousand. No matter in the countryside or in the city, even if a woman who is a parent asks for a bride price from the man, she will not be the only one, but will buy a dowry for the girl's marriage, which will be used for special purposes, and then even bring money (bride price) back to the boy's home. Therefore, boys and their parents should not worry about how much bride price the woman's parents want. The ancients said: Only when you are in charge can you know that rice is expensive, and only when you raise your children to prevent old age can you know how to repay your parents. Therefore, being a child, being a father and being a mother is a life course that everyone has to experience. Only by doing it yourself can we fully appreciate the truth and hardships.

My girlfriend doesn't ask you for a wedding room or a car, but she wants 200 thousand bride price, which is really not much.

As for her, she wants 200 thousand, whether to give it to her parents or not, without even asking. Now, almost every family is an only child. When their daughter who has been raised for more than 20 years is married to your family and becomes a member of your family, it is not too much to ask you for some bride price money.

You said a son-in-law and a half, then you have to meet that. Not their own, some things really don't work. If your father-in-law is seriously ill, can you go and see him? If your own father is ill, you can sell the house to treat him. Therefore, as the old saying goes, there is a cloud that blocks the belly and separates the mountains.

Then, your girlfriend asks you for 200 thousand bride price money, and you can't bear it, so you don't really love her. 200,000 yuan, it is not too much to talk about, and it is not too little to talk about. The average family should be able to afford it. Unless, of course, you are a single-parent family.

If your family is really in trouble, you can't come up with this 200 thousand. You can make it clear to your girlfriend. If she understands you, you two can be together. If you don't understand, go their separate ways.

If, at home, you can come up with this 200 thousand, you just can't get through that hurdle in your heart. You have to make it clear to others that if you can continue to get along, you will continue to develop. If you can't, don't delay others, and it's over when you go your separate ways.

In a word, in my opinion, you don't want to take this 200 thousand, but it's not true that you don't have this thing, so you have to take it easy. It is not without precedent that the woman wants bride price money. It's nothing unusual for a girlfriend to ask you for bride price money. You'd better discuss it with your girlfriend. Finally, what you can do depends on your nature. Personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it.

If your girlfriend wants 200 thousand, you can't accept it psychologically Are you sure this is your true love?

200,000 is neither too much nor too little in today's society, no matter where it is. If you really love her, find your own way. A person who wants to spend his life with you may just want to give his family a little reserve. It is understandable that the girlfriend really gave it to her parents. After all, she married a woman. On the bright side, the bride price your parents want may be a reserve fund for you. In the worst case, women want to make up for their parents' absence, but there are not many!

Don't delay a relationship for what you can earn back. Some true feelings are missed, even for a lifetime, and you can't earn back that little bride price yourself! From the standpoint of a girlfriend, think about it. If you really can't come up with it, then discuss it with your girlfriend. Sometimes, women love to test, just want to prove to themselves that they love her. If it's not true love, just tell her and explain why, not because of money, but because there is no fact that you want to spend your life with her.

From the standpoint of a woman, true love is bound to marry, whether you give it or not. From the standpoint of a man, it is really not expensive to marry a woman to go home, do laundry, cook, look after the house, have children and raise children.

In our Guangxi 200,000 bride price, daydreaming ...! . We won't sell our daughter. 100,000 millionaires. Good. It's usually 50 thousand or 60 thousand

Alas! Why is your daughter so valuable and enviable? My daughter is married to the northeast, and I didn't ask for any bride price. Instead, I gave my daughter tens of thousands of dollars to buy a dowry at her husband's house [I want to be quiet] [I want to be quiet]

If there is no room for relaxation, it is the price of 200,000. Let's not talk about this marriage. If it were me, I mean, if it were me, I wouldn't bargain with you. I have/kloc-0.0 million in my hand, and I won't pay a penny for the bride price. This is either a wedding or a vegetable market. What does she need to do to buy and sell marriage? How much did she marry?

Don't lose a person because of money. Sometimes missing is a lifetime. You can make money without money. If not, you will regret it for the rest of your life!

If you can't bear it, don't bear it. Although I don't advise you to leave, I still advise you to forget it and start over. She is not your type, and it will be difficult to be happy in the future.

The high bride price is actually to buy a wedding and sell a wedding. You think her request for the 200,000 bride price is too high, so choose not to, and find another one with a low price. It's impossible for everyone to pay 200 thousand.

Is the 200,000 bride price high?

Marry a daughter-in-law and spend 200 thousand?

Then you can't accept it psychologically I can see that you think this money is too much, or not worth it!

As a wedding person, give you advice!

If it's too much, you won't be willing to pay the money. You can communicate with the girl's parents and ask about the usage and giving method of this bride price.

Because the bride price money is basically brought back after marriage, this 200 thousand is still your money, just take it out of your pocket or your parents' pocket and put it in your daughter-in-law's pocket You can communicate with your daughter-in-law how to deal with the money, whether to return it to your parents or start a family.

Also pay attention to the delivery methods of bride price, including cash, transfer and bank card. Cash is 200,000 cash brought directly to the woman's home on the day of the bride price. What to do with the money depends on the future father-in-law. Transfer is to transfer 0.2 million/200 thousand to your girlfriend's account Who should you take this money to? Ask your girlfriend. Sending a card means taking a bank card with a check of 200,000 or 200,000. This is the most convenient, as long as you discuss with your girlfriend, no one knows about the empty card or the empty check. This is just a formality.

If you can't coordinate with your girlfriend, be sure to ask if you brought this money back. When will you bring it back?

I can't get through psychologically, but I still have to live!

I have met many people who finally broke up because of the bride price, and got married and divorced because of the bride price.

The bride price has now become a topic of concern to the whole people, and there are more and more high-priced bride prices! It also makes people resist the bride price.

Call for a boycott of the bad habit of sky-high bride price! But it does not advocate naked marriage. Naked marriage costs a lot, as the saying goes: but it is not as people who have been poor together know. There are too many things around us, which is why many people want a bride price now, a way to prove their financial resources. Zhang Ailing said that all affairs in this world need money.

If you don't want to take this 200 thousand, discuss it with your girlfriend. After all, as long as she agrees to it, you can hide it. If she doesn't agree, it will be the fuse of your quarrel in the future!

If you think 200 thousand is not worth it! Then I advise you to give up directly.