In fact, it doesn't matter how much the bride price is, what matters is whether it is appropriate or not. Of course, everyone knows that who doesn't want money and who doesn't want to take more? But what will they do with the 50,000 yuan? All these should be asked clearly. If it is not easy to ask, you can ask indirectly through your girlfriend. Baidu's search habit is not necessarily accurate.
The amount of bride price money will actually reflect the face of the family in that place. If there were more money, the family would have face in front of their neighbors. On the contrary, if you have less money, you will lose face. Everyone has the mentality of keeping up with the joneses, so it is normal to send an idea to the older generation.
The bride price is so much money, in fact, when the woman gets married, or when she gets married and buys a house, or when she subsidizes or buys furniture, she will give some dowry. It is possible to continue to support her family. I don't know if you can understand what I said. Although only 20 thousand bride price money was given when we got married, the woman's parents promised to buy us a set of furniture after buying a house.
Solve the method or breakthrough that the woman's family insists on 50 thousand yuan and refuses to let go;
Looking for a girlfriend, taking her as a breakthrough, no matter how much this gift money is, it will have little influence on your small family in the future. It is important not to make both parents unhappy first and then affect their marriage because of different opinions on this gift money. Everyone knows that marriage is a lifelong thing for two people. If something goes wrong, it may become a regret in life and may affect their feelings. Once the girlfriend speaks for the woman's family, then this period. So try to make your girlfriend stand on the same side as you, neutral and impartial.
You can say to your girlfriend: Now all the money in my family is so small (say 80 thousand). If this 50 thousand is given to your family, we will hold a banquet, invite a wedding, take wedding photos and buy a wedding diamond ring. This set is 40 thousand, less, it will exceed the total price. What if you give me 30 thousand 40,000 will do these things, and the rest 1 10,000 will be reserved for preparation. Besides, what should I do with my married life? We should also make plans for our own lives, convince your girlfriend with these plans, and then let her convince her parents.
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