In-laws hold it, and the money for marriage is basically held by the mother-in-law, which belongs to the family, because the expenses for setting the table for the son's marriage and the whole marriage process are paid in advance by the in-laws. This expensive expense should be compensated by money, and the profits and losses should be borne by the in-laws. However, the daughter-in-law can get a bride price (kowtow) money from relatives and friends, and maybe the mother-in-law will give her some money.

For example, I cater to both sides. My mother's family collected more than 7,000 yuan, and my mother gave me 20,000 yuan (including 65,438+0,000 yuan from my husband's family), six quilts and nothing else. My husband's family didn't know how much money was charged, and I didn't mention it. It is very simple for me to get married with my husband, except that the banquet is my own, and I don't want to spend the money of the elderly.

I didn't ask for anything. My husband bought a house and borrowed 654.38 million yuan in foreign debt, and I will pay it back myself in the future. After the marriage, my husband gave me the remaining 30 thousand yuan. My husband works very hard. Although he can't be rich or expensive, his annual salary is enough for me to use for two years. I also accumulated 65,438+million before marriage. My parents-in-law and I have no financial problems. As long as my husband is kind to me, I don't ask for anything else.

Finally, how to allocate the money can follow the following principles: 1. Discuss the ownership of money in advance before the wedding; Don't contradict each other if you encounter serious differences. Parents can tell their children what problems they have and let the young couple communicate and solve them. ?

So you should speak boldly to your in-laws and express your thoughts. Secondly, you should remember which is more important, family relationship or money. Communicate in time when things happen, and don't affect each other's feelings for money! No matter where the money is spent, it will not affect the future marriage life.