First, the three taboos of married women
1, don't go back to my family for the New Year.
In our customs and taboos, married women are forbidden to stay at their parents' home during the New Year. Generally speaking, the Spring Festival is always at the man's house, and he will not return to his parents' house until the second day of the second year. According to the custom in some areas, if a married daughter spends the New Year in her parents' home, it will bring bad luck to her parents in the coming year.
2. Don't have children at home.
In fact, there are not many people who strictly observe this taboo now. According to traditional customs, if a married woman gives birth to a child at her mother's house, it will bring bad luck to her mother's house and her husband's family. But now, you must choose a convenient place to have a baby, and everything is health-oriented.
Don't go back to your mother's house on the day of sacrifice.
In our traditional Gregorian calendar year, there are days dedicated to offering sacrifices to stoves, and some places are also called Kitchen God Festival, off-year and so on. On this day, if the married daughter returns to her family, it will also have a negative impact on the fortune of her family and her husband's family.
Second, do you want to set off firecrackers at the married woman's house?
1, firecrackers are an essential thing in our traditional wedding, and the woman naturally has to set them off. Generally speaking, the time for women to set off firecrackers is relatively fixed. On the morning of the wedding, the bride waits for the wedding reception after finishing makeup.
2. When the man's wedding team is approaching the woman's house, it will set off firecrackers in advance. At this time, the woman needs to set off firecrackers to respond. When the man's wedding team officially arrives at the woman's house, firecrackers should also be set off to welcome them.
In addition, the wedding team successfully picked up the bride. When the whole team is ready to leave and return to the wedding scene, the woman should set off firecrackers at home, which means a farewell blessing. But now many cities are not allowed to set off fireworks and firecrackers, so you should know the local regulations clearly when preparing.
Conclusion:
This paper introduces the traditional wedding customs and taboos, as well as some common sense on the wedding day, hoping to help you prepare for the wedding.