If you are in a city, especially in some large and medium-sized cities, there is no difference between good and bad if you do what you want. Anyway, the human feelings in the city are indifferent, and it is difficult for neighbors to get to know each other. There is no contact with each other. It doesn't matter whether you do it or not. If you don't do it, no one will praise you because no one will scold you.
If you are in the countryside, it is another matter, not only to do it, but also to make it grand and lively, otherwise people will look down on you. People born in rural areas know that many people in the whole village and even other villages are familiar with it. Coupled with many relatives in rural areas, there is little cultural entertainment among villagers. Marriage is often a great pleasure. Anyone who dares not to do it, or even not to do it, will definitely become the big news in the village. Marriage is also one of the main reasons for evaluating a family's wealth in rural areas, followed by gifts and money. If you don't do it yourself, the money you have paid over the years will be wasted, which is one of the reasons why you want to hold a wedding banquet.
Another reason is the attitude of the woman. If the man's family does not hold a wedding, the woman's family will not agree, because the village where the woman's family is located will also have a bad influence on the woman's family. She thinks that finding a poor son-in-law will make her family laughed at in the village. For the above reasons, rural weddings should be held not only, but also.
It's so hard to get married!