Get together. Both men and women should choose the lunar calendar, solar calendar and Wednesday as their wedding dates. If you can't get together, the lunar calendar shall prevail. At the same time, pay attention to avoid the birth month and birthday of both parents. If you decide, don't change, because in the old days, there was a saying that you decide your life.
On the morning of the wedding, the man made a gift to the woman according to the old custom of "water ceremony". Gifts are similar, and some have replaced the previous steamed bread and pork with big bread and canned food. Some people don't give water gifts because the woman will entertain relatives and friends or hold a banquet in a restaurant when her daughter returns to China, and it is agreed that the man will pay for it. Generally, when a man gives a gift to a woman's house, he brings back the bride's dowry. On the way back and forth, both sides greeted each other with firecrackers.
At the same time of dowry, the bride gets up early and, accompanied by her family or girlfriend, finds someone to do her hair and make up.
After the man brought back the bride's dowry, he began to marry the bride. The average person has one or three cars, and a few people have more than five, and even use motorcycles to clear the way. There are two cloud cakes at the foot of the bride's car, which means "climb higher step by step", following the custom of "the new couple don't take the old road" in the old wedding. The road the bride took when she got on the bus did not pass.
Put five firecrackers as gifts at the wedding, that is, at the men's house, the women's house, the makeup, the departure and the men's trailer.
Don't marry a man for more than noon 12. Therefore, on a happy morning, both men and women are very busy at home. If the bride gets on the bus slowly at the woman's house and firecrackers are ineffective, it is more effective to persuade her to go to her husband's house after noon.
Most wedding banquets are held in hotels. The bride and groom welcome guests in western-style wedding dresses and smoke in front of the door. After three rounds of wine on the dining table, we propose two glasses of wine to the guests one by one, and then send out wedding candy. After attending the wedding reception, the guests paid a courtesy visit to the new house. There are also young friends of the bride and groom who stay in trouble.
It is still common to return home on the third day after marriage.