This word is familiar to everyone. As the name implies, you need money when you die. Put interests first, no matter what happens, even if the sky were to fall and the seas dried up and the rocks crumbled, no matter what happens, ask for money first.
I often hear people say, but how many cases are there? Actually, it's really not much.
I can tell you responsibly that most people are more open to marriage now, and most of them only have one baby. They all think that it is the most important thing to make the baby live well, and it really doesn't cost money.
But anyone who has a little emotional intelligence and a big picture can always understand each other. After all, getting married is not a trivial matter. As we all know, it is normal to have frictions and differences. It is not difficult to take a step back from each other and seek a broad vision, as long as both sides can tolerate me.
Sometimes people think it's too much, because such activities are more attractive and have higher exposure. In fact, it is still a case.
But to say such a thing, does it exist in real life? There really is.
Sometimes we feel that these things are really far away from us, and sometimes they are particularly dramatic and unrealistic. But sometimes, you have to admit that the source of drama itself is reality, no matter how incredible it is, it is reality as long as it happens.
Tell me a personal experience. Last year, a distant cousin of mine got married, which scared a group of unmarried boys. Don't say the bride price. Let's start with what the girl wants, eight cases of wine, eight cigarettes, eight cases of milk, eight cases of refreshments, and so on. Anyway, it is eight items of each kind, and they are all based on the best.
On the wedding day, my father, a well-informed old man, sincerely sighed to me, "It's like opening a wholesale department and moving home."
This is not the most interesting. We pay attention to "give and take" here. When a man gives a gift, a woman must give it back. People who pay attention will give back with the same amount, and it won't be too bad if they don't pay attention. Interestingly, my cousin's father excitedly sent a gift back with two fish in his black face.
Yes, this "eight-eight-six four-piece suit" finally brought two fish. You said fresh is not fresh.
Although it is said that the days have passed and the woman has really made a fortune, it is not authentic, and it has spread around our area. Everyone knows that the woman's family is not authentic and has a bad reputation.
"Die for money" seems to be a sure thing, but in fact it is a sure thing. My cousin's family is honest, but he also lost his good reputation. There is nothing to lose. If we run into a hard stubble, the marriage will probably fail, and in the end, we will have to make a scene. That is really a comedy turned into a tragedy.
There are many such things now. After all, nobody is stupid. You can ask for money, but I have the right not to promise you a good kiss. In the end, not only did the in-laws become enemies, but the couple also became enemies, and their reputation was really bad.
Now "dying for money" is a very derogatory word. If the marriage is still yellow, it will be difficult to find a good marriage.
So, if nothing else, just think of yourself. Lian Fang also suggested that you should not put immediate interests first, not be too selfish, and think more about each other, so as to save some unreliable problems, make it convenient for each other and leave yourself a way out. Don't think about regret when you can't retreat. By that time, it will be too late.
Liu obviously doesn't understand this truth. If she can handle it, she won't make herself so ugly in the end. She didn't ask for much, but no one dared to take over. Li Liu's intestines are green with regret, but there is only this kind of regret medicine in the world. No matter how much it costs, she can only face it and pay for her mistakes.
Suppose Li Liu is 27 years old. She had a boyfriend years ago, and she is already a justified fiance. Ten days before the wedding, she broke up. Liu Ligang felt quite wronged at first, saying that her boyfriend was too stingy and left without making any unreasonable demands.
Li Liu's mother is not a fuel-efficient lamp. As soon as she heard the boy quit, she scolded him vigorously in the community and sprayed dog blood on her head. The young man was not so angry, and his temper came up. He asked for the bride price and left. Li Liu and his mother began to panic, but the young man said that he would not get married. Li Liu lost the groom's official ten days before the wedding.
Many people who don't know the ins and outs of this matter said at the beginning that the young man was a little grumpy and that Li Liu was pitiful. It can be seen that when the lover revealed the truth of this matter, all these people defected again, saying that the young man was right and walked well, so that these "desperate for money" people should understand that no one's head was pinched by dough.
This is actually quite unusual. Li Liu's boyfriend is Zou Liang, and Li Liu are colleagues. They also talk to each other. Li Liu is a native and an aborigine. Li Liu's mother has a local pride, and she especially likes to speak in the tone of "How do we locals do it?" Li Liu follows in her mother's footsteps.
In fact, Liu Lijia is so pretentious. In fact, her family conditions are not good, but she is very good-looking and generous. It seems that this is true. People who don't know Liu Li's family can really be fooled at once.
Zou Liang happens to be a foreigner. He's from out of town. Li Liu is very good-looking, and his personality is very pleasant, so he is the first person in the company who is familiar with Zou Liang. Zou Liang has a special feeling for her. They both have feelings for each other in the long run.
Two single young people, both old, naturally came together. Liu Ligang didn't agree at first, mainly because he wanted to find a promising local youth who had everything and didn't have to struggle. But then I felt that I was not young. Zou Liang was kind to her, responsive and enthusiastic, and finally agreed with Zou Liang.
They talked for a year and were going to get married. Zou Liang's family conditions are above average in his hometown. After Zou Liang said he wanted to get married, his parents paid a down payment of100000 yuan to let them buy a house. This made Li Liu feel uncomfortable. She felt that Zou Liang's parents were hiding something, because Zou Liang said that both parents worked in institutions, and she felt that she always had some money, so it should not be just that.
Therefore, when asking for the bride price, Li Liu directly asked for 300,000 yuan. Although it is at least half as high as the local bride price, Liu Li still wants it with confidence. Zou Liang was very scared, but Li Liu killed him and demanded 300,000 yuan as a bride price. There is no way out. Finally, Zou Liang crustily skin of head asked his parents for 300,000 yuan as a bride price and gave it to Li Liu.
After buying three golds, Li Liu bought more than 70,000 yuan. Zou Liang didn't ask his parents for money, but borrowed it from a friend. In fact, half of the 300,000 bride price was paid by Zou Liang himself. His parents really can't afford so much money. Zou Liang was embarrassed to ask his parents for money again, so he asked for half and paid for it himself. All these made his parents very embarrassed, and also made Zou Liang hard up.
Liu Li's family didn't pay for the wedding photos and the wedding reception, but Zou Liang borrowed them. Because of this, there have actually been many conflicts between Zou Liang and Li Liu.
Zou Liang thinks that if we order ordinary wedding banquets and wedding photos, he can go out alone, but Li Liu wants the best. Zou Liang thinks that Liu Li's family should pay more. But as soon as Zou Liang spoke, Li Liu accused him of disrespecting her and not wanting to live a good life with her.
With so much investment, it is difficult for Zou Liang to ride a tiger. He really wants to marry Li Liu and live a good life. However, Li Liu looks like this, which really makes him blind to the future. But after all, women value marriage, and Zou Liang can understand Li Liu's good mood. Finally, he persuaded himself to coax Li Liu, crustily skin of head to borrow money, and put the expenses on the mat first.
Originally, everything has landed, Zou Liang finally breathed a sigh of relief. After all, his girlfriend is no less than an ancestor's. For a while, he had to smile and think with Zou Liang. Now that everything is ready, we just need to get married. Zou Liang seems to have finished the task, and his mood is relaxed.
But before Zou Liang caught his breath, that is, ten days before the wedding, Li Liu became a demon again.
It was a rest day. Originally, Zou Liang was dizzy because of the wedding, so he planned to take advantage of the holiday to catch up on sleep and have a rest. As a result, early in the morning, Li Liu called Zou Liang and said that Li Liu's mother and Zou Liang's future mother-in-law wanted a gold necklace and asked Zou Liang for it. The reason is very good, saying that it is to fill in the preface for their marriage. After all, she is also a VIP at the wedding reception, and many people want to see her.
Zou Liang must be very angry. Why does he need to buy a gold necklace? Obviously, he needs to pay for it. Besides, a big man in Zou Liang wants to buy jewelry, but his mother-in-law doesn't follow, and neither does Li Liu. This may be difficult for Zou Liang.
But Li Liu has always been uncompromising. When he finishes, he wants you to finish it at once, or there will be a phone call. There is no way, so Zou Liang must get up and get things done as soon as possible.
After a day's shopping, Zou bought a similar style described by her mother-in-law on the phone and sent it to her girlfriend's house in a hurry. But after her mother-in-law took a look, she went directly to the box and said that she didn't like this style and asked her to take it back and exchange it for another one.
Zou Liang, who had to go to work the next day after a hard day, was really angry. Seeing his mother-in-law and his girlfriend bossing him around and asking him to contribute money, he was really angry at the moment. Zou Liang lied that he didn't pay the taxi fare, took the bride price money given to him by Kolor from his girlfriend's bag, left with a gold necklace and never came back.
Zou Liang applied to be transferred back to his original company the next day. Although the salary of this foreigner is very high, he once thought of settling down in Liu's house and working here for a long time. However, what Liu did made him completely disillusioned.
"I see, they don't treat me like a person at all, they just want my money, and I don't care about anything else. Her mother asked me for a gold necklace, and I guessed that if I married her in the future, his family would depend on me for everything.
That's not all. I am like an errand boy. I have no salary. I buy things for her myself. She is still not satisfied. She doesn't respect me at all, so she just wants to boss me around. I feel like a licking dog. I really can't stand this kind of life in the future.
What is the frontispiece? I don't want this face. I grind my teeth and stamp my foot, and I give up my marriage and get rid of it.
I'm glad she didn't agree to get the license with me in advance, so it's convenient to leave now. It's a good thing I didn't give her the house payment. For those funds that I can't get back, I should buy myself a lesson and can only comfort myself in this way. "
After Zou Liang left, Li Liu and his mother were really dumbfounded. They thought Zou Liang was just talking, but they didn't expect Zou Liang to be serious. In addition, before he left, Zou Liang told these things to a good brother of a company, and it spread in Li Liu.
When everyone knew what Liu Li's family had done, they all felt incredible. After all, Li Liu usually pretends to be very rich and indifferent. I didn't think there was such a person in private, and they all lost their affection for Li Liu.
After the neighbors knew it, they also talked about it one after another, making Liu Li's family cautious when going out. They can't stand the contempt of outsiders.
Liu Lijia, who was "in urgent need of money", really began to regret it later. It's been half a year. When Zou Liang left, Li Liu still vowed that "there will be something better after leaving him", but one year later, Li Liu still hasn't found a good candidate.
It's not that she is demanding, but that her family's reputation is abroad. Now as long as Li Liu is mentioned, the boys around her basically know that the matchmaker is unwilling to go to Liu Li's house to help with matchmaking, so Li Liu has been dragging her feet. Obviously, she is almost 28 years old, and she can't afford it. Now she can't afford it, and she only consumes energy. After all, the good man was robbed by her and her reputation was bad. It's not easy to find it again.
To say that Li Liu was a fool, he insisted on asking for money and turned out to be a dead duck. She thinks that men are destined to eat, and the other person will take whatever she wants unconditionally, so she dares to talk too much and do too much. There are quite a few people who think so. They always feel that everything the other party does is right and everything they put forward is taken for granted. They never thought about each other, only asked from their own point of view.
But everyone has a bottom line, and everyone's patience is limited. Even if you love again, you can't stand this overloaded one-way request. For the sake of love, he will endure, but he can't stand it any longer, so he can't stand it any longer. And unlike women, men have no room for manoeuvre in their decisions.
It's ironic to say that you want a frontispiece. It's embarrassing enough to do such behavior. What frontage do you need? Face is not given by others, but earned by yourself. "Dying for money" is a hell on earth, and making unreasonable demands means rubbing your face on the ground.
Don't be too self-righteous, the other party is not necessarily you, and the other party doesn't owe you anything. Correct your attitude and treat marriage equally, otherwise happiness will always be someone else's, and you will only envy it.