Everyone can only have this opportunity once in his life. No one wants to make the wedding perfect and festive. No one wants to encounter such a thing. In the final analysis, it is because the customs are too backward. Those ancient customs were handed down by the old people. Their thoughts are still in a very feudal state, but now the times have kept pace with the times, and we should not be imprisoned by those feudal thoughts.
The death of an old man at home is indeed a very sad thing, but presumably the late mother should also want to see her son get married, even in the grave, and she should feel very happy. Therefore, there is no need to hold the son's wedding together with the mother's funeral, which is really unfair to the bride. It's really not a good sign that a person marries a man but holds a funeral on the first day of the wedding.
So this kind of wedding is really unacceptable. In any case, you should do one thing at a time. You can also complete the wedding of a couple first, and then handle the funeral of the old man. It is because of those backward ideas that such an unexpected wedding will happen, which is very bad for both sides. There is no law saying that there are white things at home, and you can't do happy things for three years. It's just traditional thinking.