Generally speaking, when engaged, the husband usually gives 30,000-50,000 yuan, which is generally not less than 20,000 yuan according to his own conditions (the house needs to be prepared by the man, and if he gives 50,000 yuan, it is all-inclusive, including decoration, jewelry and furniture, and if he gives 20,000 yuan, he usually needs the man to decorate it), and the woman should give at least 3000-5000 yuan to let her choose home appliances first (the woman usually buys two kinds of TVs and washing machines or refrigerators, and she wants to buy On the wedding day, the woman's family put a happy word on the home appliances she bought, and the rest were not put up (that is, when the woman's family didn't buy anything, everyone looked at the new house). The wedding banquet can be all-inclusive by the man's family or by the newlyweds themselves. It can also be a part of the man's bag, give the woman five tables or 10 tables, and the rest will be taken by the bride's family (mainly depending on economic conditions). Before the wedding, it must be made clear whether parents will receive gifts, because some of them are colleagues or distant relatives of both parents, and the couple may not be able to go back in the future. Generally, parents don't pick up weddings in Shenyang, but give them to newcomers. On the wedding day, when the groom went to pick up the bride, he took two children (a man and a woman). The bride's family went out alone 100, and the groom changed his mouth 1000. The bride changed her tune, just like what was said upstairs. At the wedding, the children's in-laws asked for money, but they didn't come as much. Before the wedding, you should confirm it. Generally, immediate family members discuss with how many parents. 50,100,200 can be based on your own situation, but it is also possible to give some good sugar (chocolate or something). That's all. Do your best.