Why are more and more young people unwilling to get married now? I think there are several reasons.
First, the mind is immature and yearns for freedom.
Some people feel like children. If you get married, you will be restricted by your family and children everywhere. They don't know how to live and educate their children in the future. A bunch of problems, so much trouble, it is better to be carefree alone. Work if you want, rest if you want, single, eat by yourself, and the whole family is not hungry. This kind of person is to wait for his success, then consider his feelings and be free for the time being. Enjoy a single life.
Second, negative news about marriage in the society keeps on.
Negative news is easy to get hot search, but negative news about marriage, such as cheating marriage, domestic violence, cheating, such as Su Xiangmao's XinXin Zhai incident, Li Yang's family problems, Tmall President Fan Jiang and Zhang Dayi incident, will make young people afraid to get married, lack confidence in marriage and even have fear. So many negative news shows that the family structure is unstable. Since it is unstable, it is better not to get married, so many young people choose not to get married.
Third, the independence of personality
This has something to do with the division of labor mentioned above. Nowadays, young people have more personality, more self-thinking and more self-creativity. Many of them want to enjoy their youth while they are young, enjoy their lives and talk about the future of marriage or feel it is unnecessary. Why should we have one more person, one more family, suppress our own personality and accommodate others?
Fourth, a more open mind.
Young people generally have a series of mentality, such as going to a nursing home when they are old, wanting a dink when they get married, and why they want to get married now. I don't have a partner now and I don't want to change partners at any time. I can choose more, so I won't have this freedom when I get married. These open ideas make young people refuse to get married to some extent.
Fifth, the gender division of labor is no longer so obvious.
The social division of labor between men and women is becoming less and less obvious. Whether it is the primitive society in which men plow and women weave, or the society in which men dominate and women dominate, it is not only women who hold up half the sky, but also women can occupy a dominant position on many occasions.
Life needs no definition. Getting married at the age of 25 is a life, and not getting married at the age of 40 is also a life. Happiness has nothing to do with marital status, and your life doesn't need to be explained to anyone.