1. Whether to hold a banquet or not is a personal choice. Someone must get married without a banquet. But now more and more young people have this idea, which does not mean that this idea is wrong. Everyone has his own choice. If both husband and wife think it's ok, parents can naturally skip the banquet.

2. There is no express stipulation that marriage must be a banquet, so marriage can be a matter for two people and does not interfere with other people's lives. If you feel happy, send a circle of friends and tell everyone that you are married.

Now more and more people don't want to have a wedding. They think that the wedding is a complicated process, basically the wedding of parents and relatives. The practical significance is not great. The essence of marriage lies in getting along with two people. Traditional weddings only care about other people's opinions, and people who need a sense of ceremony can do it. If it is not so necessary, they can not do it and see someone. I think two people get along very well and don't care about this.