What happened: Mr. Lei from Bijie, Guizhou, exposed the National Day banquet that he wanted to eat for more than ten days on the Internet. I ate 23 tables a day, and the gift money was 4,800 yuan. Mr. Lei said that he had a headache, and giving gifts was one thing. Mainly 23 banquets, how to eat? There are six people in my family, even if we share it, we can't finish it. The biggest headache for Mr. Lei is that there were eight banquets on June 65438+1 October1,two of which were close relatives and had to go. But if it were me, I wouldn't even go.
0 1, the long holiday should be reserved for everyone, 365 days a year, and only the National Day holiday and the Chinese New Year holiday are longer, so you can travel. If you want to eat a banquet, you can't go out to play. Waiting until next year, attending a banquet is also a social etiquette. I think I pay more attention to my journey than this social etiquette. Unless I am very close, I am willing to sacrifice my holiday to attend the wedding. For many post-90 s and post-00 s, it is more important to please yourself.
02. Attending a banquet means eating a meal, which means little. Many traditional banquets actually mean that relatives and friends get together for dinner. You may not be familiar with the people at the same table. And in this process, the protagonist of the banquet will come to your table to say a word or two during the toast, and the whole interaction process will not exceed five minutes. After all, after a banquet, they have to respect dozens of people at a table. Therefore, the banquet is only for eating most of the time. Instead of this, it is better to go out to eat by yourself and be happier.
03. When people are away, the ceremony will be fine. In fact, a banquet means that everyone follows each other's gifts. If people don't go, it's enough to give gifts, which means the same thing, especially the wine seats of some friends who are not very close.