Details and etiquette at the wedding
1, the wedding etiquette kiss should be affectionate but not forgetful.
The couple kissed after the ceremony announced that they were officially husband and wife. When kissing, you can express the feeling of happiness with natural and generous affection, but you should avoid being too forgetful. In a formal and solemn wedding, excessive madness will make people feel that the image of the new couple lacks dignity.
2. The turning range of wedding etiquette should be gentle and the movements should be neat.
The bride should show noble temperament in the wedding and avoid any big moves. When you need to turn around, your body should rotate with your steps. Turn gently and move neatly, but avoid giving people the feeling of being in a hurry and unstable. If the skirt of a wedding dress or gown is large, you can gently grasp the skirt and skirt with your hand opposite to the rotation direction and lift it slightly when you turn around.
3, wedding etiquette bow forward 15-20 degrees.
Bowing is a traditional way of saluting in China. The depth of the bow, that is, the angle of leaning forward, is the degree of thanking each other. In traditional weddings in China, a deep bow, that is, a 90-degree bow, is required to express the highest degree of gratitude. However, the common bow etiquette now does not completely need to adopt the deep bow ceremony. Generally speaking, lean forward 15-20 degrees and pause for 2 seconds.
The bride should pay attention to avoid putting her hands on her chest to prevent exposure. This posture is neither beautiful nor sincere, and does not respect the guests. In fact, to prevent exposure is not to cover it with your hands, but to pay attention to the fit and appropriateness of clothes. In addition, it should be reminded that when the bride and groom bow, their movements should be harmonious and consistent.
4, wedding etiquette exchange ring don't be nervous.
In church weddings, besides flower girl, there is usually a ring bearer who walks into the ceremony with the couple. If there is no ring bearer, the groom's ring should be kept by the bridesmaid and the bride's ring by the best man. When the bride and groom exchange tokens in the ceremony, the bridesmaid gives the groom's ring to the bride, and then the bride puts the ring on the ring finger of her left hand and gives it to the groom. When wearing a ring, the groom should bend his elbow and reach out to the natural height. The bride holds the groom's hand in her left hand and the ring in her thumb, forefinger and middle finger in her right hand, and puts it on the groom's ring finger. If you can't put it on because you are nervous, don't worry that he will raise his hand and carefully put it on his eyes, so the photo will be ugly. So is the groom.
Throwing socks in wedding etiquette is to pass happiness on to brothers.
This is a traditional wedding custom in the west. At the wedding, the bride usually wears two socks above the knee of her right leg. One of these two socks was kept, and the other was taken off by the groom after she threw the bouquet, and then thrown behind the unmarried man. This ceremony is like throwing a bouquet of flowers, which means passing happiness on to the two brothers.
6, wedding etiquette stand upright, chest and abdomen.
Standing upright will make people look more energetic. The correct posture is to put your feet together, keep your back straight, hold your chest and abdomen, stretch your back upward, smile and look straight ahead. Be careful not to let your arms cling to your body and relax your shoulders, which can relieve your tense posture and avoid appearing stiff. If you want to avoid standing uncomfortable for a long time, you can spread your toes a little. In addition, when the couple is standing, the groom should be on the right side of the bride. This is an ancient custom. It is said that the bride is on her left, which is convenient for the groom to draw his sword with his right hand and confront the enemy when necessary, which can better protect the bride.
7, wedding etiquette smile is the best way to beauty.
Smile is the most beautiful way. You should keep smiling at the wedding and share your happiness and joy with your relatives and friends. Smiling can not only express your feelings, but also make you look more beautiful. The secret to avoid long-term smile leading to stiff expression lies in whether you can make your eyes smile. When making eye contact with guests, smile at the same time and nod to them when necessary. A smile of communication will make your expression more natural and will not become stiff. Brides should avoid laughing, which will deepen the lines of lip makeup and destroy the overall makeup.
8. The method of taking off gloves in wedding etiquette is elegant and slow.
Be sure to wear matching gloves when wearing a wedding dress. However, at the ceremony of exchanging rings, gloves will be taken off. It is important to take off your gloves gracefully at this time. When taking off gloves, the nails should be facing straight ahead, and the fingers should be naturally close together. Then take off gloves and gently pinch the fingertips of gloves. It is appropriate to remove them from thumb to little finger in turn. Gloves are placed next to the bride in a special place for gloves. If there is no special place, put it near the bride for easy access. After the ceremony, you should wear gloves and leave. You can wear gloves when drinking at the party and take them off when eating.
9. Lift the skirt gently and slowly.
Gently lift the front and middle of the wedding dress at a height that does not affect walking. When one hand is not holding anything, one hand holds the wedding dress and the other hand is used as an auxiliary to pull the yarn next to it. It is best not to show your feet. It shouldn't rush forward like a March. Keep your upper body upright when walking. Don't move your legs, swing your shoulders. Look ahead.
10, turn around and look back slowly, pay attention to the neck line.
In the process of the wedding, it is wrong to turn around casually as usual when being called by the person behind you. Just looking back will show insincerity, even if you don't think so in your heart, such actions and expressions will also show a bad state. There will be ugly wrinkles on the neck. At this time, it is best to turn your body around. Gentle movements are the key to an elegant turn. Hold the center line of the wedding dress behind you with your hands, so that the yarn behind you can rotate in the opposite direction. When you turn around, don't just turn your neck, your body will turn with you. Don't swing the skirt greatly, turn around slowly and keep elegant at all times. Turn around in a flurry and try to avoid it.
1 1, take a handkerchief with you and avoid makeup.
Even on the exciting day of your wedding, you will leave tears of happiness and excitement, so be sure to prepare a handkerchief to wipe your tears, and the bride or bridesmaid will carry it with you. When wiping tears, the bride should gently press her eyes, noting that if she wipes them back and forth, it will destroy the makeup of her eyes. Brides who are prone to tears should be careful not to wear too much eye makeup, and should always make up their makeup to avoid embarrassment.
Wedding etiquette process
First, western-style wedding.
Welcome: (Western-style weddings are not welcome at first, but because of the influence of China customs, I still said it.) When welcoming guests, I smile and meet unfamiliar or unknown relatives and friends. Thank you for coming. If you wait. ?
Walking in the aisle of the wedding: The traditional wedding admission ceremony is very solemn, that is, after the right foot takes a step forward, the left foot and the right foot merge and pause for two seconds, then the left foot continues to take a step forward, and then the right foot takes a step forward until the left foot merges and pauses.
When walking, pay attention to that the stride is smaller than usual, the stride and speed of the bride and groom should be consistent, and the gait should be smooth and steady. When walking, the bride's right hand is holding the groom's left arm. Be careful not to pull the groom's clothes or tightly encircle the groom's arm, just kiss and hug the groom's arm
In addition, the groom's arm should bend naturally, and the distance between the two should be kept at about 15cm.
The bride and father entered the scene.
When walking at other times: the groom holds his head high and looks ahead. The bride is smiling, holding the bouquet in her left hand and holding the groom in her right hand.
Standing posture: female left and male right-a straight standing posture will make people look more energetic. The correct posture is to put your feet together, keep your back straight, hold your chest and abdomen, stretch your back upward, smile and look straight ahead.
Be careful not to let your arms cling to your body, relax your shoulders and lean back a little, so as to relieve your tense posture and avoid appearing stiff. If you want to avoid standing uncomfortable for a long time, you can spread your toes a little.
When turning: If there is a turn, the photographer should be allowed 3 seconds to turn the mirror and focus when turning. The bride should show noble temperament in the wedding and avoid any big moves. When you need to turn around, your body should rotate with your steps. Turn gently and move neatly, but avoid giving people the feeling of being in a hurry and unstable.
If the skirt of the wedding dress is large, you can gently grasp the skirt and skirt with your hand opposite to the rotation direction and lift it slightly when you turn around.
When the guest speaks: when the newcomer speaks, don't look around and whisper. You should look the guests or speakers in the eye.
Special attention-finger position should extend around the other person's waist.
Throwing the flower ball: When throwing the flower ball, the bride should smile, bend her arms naturally, and don't stretch too straight. Just throw the flower ball to a higher and lower position with a little force, and the movement range should not be too big.
Pour champagne: the couple holds the bottle in both hands and pours champagne from the top. The action should be slow to avoid the impact of the wine from overturning the champagne tower. If the glass overflows, you should also empty the champagne in the bottle.
Toast:
1. The couple retreated to the center of the stage with their glasses in their hands (lest the champagne tower block the sight of photographers and guests).
2. Grasp the speed when drinking. According to local customs, if there is no taboo, try it, so as to keep the bride's elegant movements. If there are taboos in the local area, it is best to give them up so as not to disrespect the guests.
Cut the cake: the bride or groom takes the lead and the bride or groom supports it. The action is gentle and slow, leaving enough shooting time for the staff.
Special tips
When toasting, you should first discuss the order of toasting, and then raise your glass with one hand. Remember, when toasting, don't let the glass cover your face, so the photos will be very ugly. At the same time, pay attention to smile, but don't be too big when the bride toasts, so as not to be exposed.
Second, Chinese wedding
1. Bow down, then the newcomer will step back a little and a half with his right foot, kneel on one knee with his right leg, and then kneel on his left leg with his hands on the ground, keeping his body and forehead as low as possible.
2.？ Husband and wife worship? Before the salute, both sides should take a small step back to avoid affecting the shooting quality.
Standing position: male left and female right
Toast etiquette at the wedding
First, the common sense of toast etiquette at the wedding how to pour wine
Before making a toast, you need to fill the glass with wine. According to the relevant etiquette, except the host and waiter, other guests are generally not allowed to pour wine for others. If the host pours the wine himself, he should pour it with the best wine at this party. Guests should raise their glasses to express their thanks and stand up if necessary.
If it is a large business meal, it should be served by the service staff. Generally, you should pour the wine from the person with the highest position and then pour it clockwise. If you don't need wine, you can put your hand on the glass and say? No, thank you? Do it. At this time, there is no need for the sommelier to ask for wine again and again. In Chinese food, when someone pours wine, can they return the favor? Finger tapping ceremony? . Especially when you are above your master. That is, the thumb, forefinger and middle finger of the right hand are close together, and the fingertips are facing down. Tap the table a few times to thank you for pouring the wine.
Second, the common sense of toast etiquette at the wedding toast time
When toasting at a specific time, the first consideration is not to affect the guests' dining. Toast is divided into formal toast and ordinary toast. Formal toasts are usually made after the guests and hosts are seated and before meals. Generally, the host will make a toast, and a standardized toast is also required. Ordinary toasting can begin as long as it is after the formal toast. But be careful when the other person is convenient. For example, he didn't propose a toast with other people or chew, thinking that the other person might be willing to accept your toast. Moreover, when toasting the same person, you should wait for someone taller than yourself to toast before toasting.
Third, toast etiquette common sense wedding toast order
What's the order of toasting? In general, the order should be based on age, position and the status of guests and hosts. Before toasting, we must fully consider the order of toasting, prioritize and avoid embarrassing situations. Even if you are confused or unclear about your position and status, you should toast in a unified order, such as toasting clockwise from your side first, or toasting from left to right and from right to left.
Fourth, the wedding toast etiquette common sense toast requirements
Toast is divided into formal toast and ordinary toast. Formal toast means that at the beginning of the banquet, the host first toasts everyone collectively and at the same time makes a standard toast. This toast can be a little longer, but it will be finished in five minutes.
No matter the host or the guest, when toasting the group in their seats, they are required to stand up first, smile, hold a glass in hand and face everyone. When the host toasts everyone, everyone should stop eating and drinking. When the host proposes a toast, everyone will raise their glasses and stand up and touch each other's glasses. According to international practice, you don't have to propose a toast. But even people who don't drink at ordinary times should sip their glasses and pretend to show respect to their hosts.
In addition to the host toasting the group, guests can also toast the group. The guest's toast can be shorter, even a sentence or two. For example:? Ladies and gentlemen, to our happy cooperation in the future, cheers! ?
Five, wedding toast etiquette common sense toast skills
1, toast skills, moderate alcohol consumption
In the absence of preparing drinks or other substitutes, the main table and the elder table should drink as little as possible, because the elder basically won't fill the children with drinks, leaving the stomach for the young people's table to drink, because the young people won't let go of the newcomers. If the groom feels really drunk after drinking again, don't worry about his face and don't drink, because it is very bad for the groom to get drunk at the wedding reception. After the wedding reception, the groom still needs to do a lot of things.
2, seize the opportunity to toast skills
At the beginning of the wedding banquet, the bride and groom should arrange a toast in time according to the number of banquet tables. If there are more tables, the time for toasting, lighting cigarettes and peeling sugar at each table should be shortened accordingly. You can tighten it first and then loosen it. If you fully respect it, some tables can toast again and communicate again. Be sure not to loosen first and then tighten. The first few tables have been respected for a long time, and the guests at the next table may have eaten almost enough and are in a hurry to leave. Let the camera follow the prison, set up the machine, take out the cavity, and then tell the guests that we all raise our glasses and leave this precious lens. Please ask our cameraman to record the moment when everyone raises a glass to congratulate the couple, and invite the whole table to stand up on the grounds of this lens. Most people are embarrassed to refuse. If the picture is good, please take a seat, and the couple will leave.
3. Toast skills The best man and bridesmaid have a clear division of labor
The best man and bridesmaid are the best assistants at the scene, which not only enlivens the atmosphere but also provides shelter for the bride and groom. If there are many wedding tables, you can arrange more groomsmen and bridesmaids in advance. In the toasting session, the bride and groom should first respect their elders, and the best man and bridesmaid are responsible for taking care of their close friends and letting time flow unconsciously. Pay attention to the choice of the best man and bridesmaid. The best man and bridesmaid can be provoked by people who are familiar with the bride and groom's friends. The best man and bridesmaid should be steady and generous, and they should not get drunk and behave in a rude manner at the scene, which will ruin the atmosphere of the whole wedding.
In addition, when rehearsing the wedding banquet with the best man and bridesmaid in advance, remember to define the division of labor and match it reasonably to save time to the maximum extent. For example, at least one groomsman is responsible for pouring wine, one is responsible for sending wine greetings, the other is responsible for blocking wine, and the bridesmaid is responsible for sending cigarettes, peeling sugar and sending and receiving red envelopes. When the newlyweds come to the guests, the best man and the bridesmaid prepare everything early, quickly and politely. It would be more perfect if a bridesmaid could be arranged to quietly remind the couple of the name and identity of each guest with a guest card.
4. Toast skills enliven the atmosphere.
On-site activities are usually arranged at wedding banquets, but they are mainly used to transition the time for the bride and groom to rest, change clothes and make up. In fact, in the toasting session, in order to avoid the helpless waiting of the guests, you can also arrange some on-site activities appropriately, which not only enlivens the atmosphere but also diverts attention, and at the same time, some exquisite rewards also make the guests feel very happy that you are here. If there are many tables for newcomers, many guests will leave after the newcomers worship the tables. Often before the toast is over, the number of guests is half, which is embarrassing. If the arranged on-site activities are interesting and fun, the full occupancy rate can be well maintained. The content of live activities can be combined with purely ornamental performances, as well as easily interactive lottery, quiz, competition and other programs.
Six, wedding toast etiquette common sense matters needing attention
1, not big enough
Remember not to drink blindly as soon as you get on the wine table. At first you may think you can still drink, but you are not drunk. But remember, that's because you haven't drunk enough. You'll know how drunk you are later. Drink slowly.
2. Many people respect one person, and no one has ever respected many people.
When toasting, we should pay attention to that many people can respect one person, but never respect many people by one person.
3. Balance of drinking water
Respect others. If you don't clink glasses, how much you drink depends on the situation, such as the amount of alcohol and the attitude of the other party. Never drink less than the other person. You know, you respect others yourself.
Step 4 propose a toast
Pick up the glass, pinch it with your right hand, and pad the bottom of the glass with your left hand. Remember that your cup is always lower than others. If you are an elder or leader, don't set yourself too low, otherwise how can you be the next person?
5. Toast with words.
Don't be silly. Toast everywhere. Maybe you drank too much and didn't leave any impression in the end. If you say something pleasant or wish you good luck in your toast, you may leave a better impression.
6, wine should be resourceful.
If there is not enough wine, put the bottle in the middle of the table and let others fill it. Don't pour the wine one by one, or it will be bad if there is no wine for others in the back.
7, drinking words and deeds
Be careful not to lose your manners after drinking, don't talk big, don't lose your manners, don't spit everywhere, don't throw chopsticks, don't point indiscriminately, drink soup, and be sure to pay attention to your words and deeds. If you are really drunk, you can go outside and have a blow to wake up.