First of all, look at the financial situation of your mother-in-law's family. 3000 is a decimal or astronomical figure for their family. If you really can't get it out, you can split it in half, or they can take as much as they can. There is a compromise. What's the use of this money? Pay attention to the money for setting a few tables or banquets. Moreover, if their family can take out the money instead of taking it away, that is another problem. . But I don't think so. . In addition, anyone can get the gift money for the banquet, or you and your wife can get the gift money. It is more reasonable for you to take the money for the banquet.