Let's see who has the black bag. If you are a bride and bridesmaid, you must never use a black bag, and you must never wear black on your body. Taboo. Red bags are usually used at weddings.

If you are a guest, don't wear black clothes. Black bag is not a big problem, unless your black bag is very big. Normal size black bag, no one noticed you. But if you are a close relative of a new person, you should try to avoid black bags. In case an old relative nags you.