1. Pre-marriage preparation: In Suzhou, wedding preparations are usually made before marriage, including choosing the wedding date, preparing the wedding banquet, buying a wedding bed and car, etc.

2. Wedding Ceremony: The wedding ceremony in Suzhou usually includes welcoming relatives, going to the door, paying homage to the church and offering tea. In these links, it is mainly the interaction and communication between the bride and groom.

3. Wedding Banquet: Wedding banquets in Suzhou usually prepare rich dishes, such as roast duck, sweet and sour fish and braised pork. At the same time, there will be traditional wedding food such as wedding banquet and candy.

As for the four-burning ceremony, it generally refers to four essential gifts in Suzhou wedding, including gold hairpin, silver bracelet, embroidered shoes and red envelopes. These gifts are usually given by the groom to the bride, representing blessings and wealth.

We can say some auspicious words when giving gifts of SiShao, such as "Gold hairpin stands for auspiciousness, may our marriage be happy" and "Silver bracelet stands for wealth and auspiciousness, and may our life be prosperous and smooth". These words not only express the blessing to the bride, but also show the sincerity and joy of the groom.