0 1. Marriage is never just the union of two people. To be precise, marriage is the union of two families. Take the post-90s marriage as an example. Most people who want to get married are of this age, and there are more only children. Imagine that two only children are married. Should both parents be raised by the newlyweds? Who can say that he doesn't adopt parents? Who has the heart to send their parents to a nursing home? Therefore, marriage is destined to be the union of two people.
Remember, my friend, even if you meet someone who is rich and kind to you in the workplace, you should weigh your own value and estimate the attitude of the other family towards you. This can't be solved by saying "just stay away from you in the future", nor can your rich second generation object resist family pressure with you. See the reality clearly.
02. The combination of two families often means whether it is suitable or not. Let me give you an example first. My second brother and my former second sister-in-law married my second sister-in-law under the pressure of all the elders in my second brother's family. They secretly got a marriage certificate, so the wedding failed. At that time, my second brother moved out to live with my second sister-in-law, but his family has been interfering with their marriage. As a result, you may not expect that the woman's parents finally couldn't bear the pressure and filed for divorce.
As for why? The reason is simple, because the gap between the two economies is too big. My second brother's father asked me a sentence that I found out twice at home: "My son will attend important occasions in the future, can your girl take it out?" Can you stand other people's pointing fingers? "I guess my ex-wife didn't think so much at first, just thinking that their girl can live a better life in the future. It seems that after a few days, I had a big fight and finally got divorced. Now the second sister-in-law that the second brother is looking for is the daughter of another company, and her career is relatively smooth. After that, there was not so much.
03. Even if the marriage is successful, the poor boy or Cinderella will get hurt in the end. Think about it. My mother-in-law slaps you every day after marriage. It's hard for you to feel comfortable for a while today and tomorrow. You think you can get along well by hugging your thighs, but it is impossible to get along with your husband day and night. Besides, what kind of woman can't see your husband in the company? Ask yourself what ability you have to keep him tied to you all the time. It's impossible. Don't even think about it. If you are a poor boy, marrying a rich woman is equivalent to being adopted, and life is not much better than Cinderella.