Every Spring Festival, children who go out to work will return to their hometown. At this time, rural families are usually mixed. A happy family is when a son of his own family takes his girlfriend home for the New Year. A worried family is its own boss and has not found a suitable partner yet.
So before and after the Spring Festival, there will be a "blind date" in the countryside. Some parents even arranged a complete blind date schedule for their children before they came home, or used their children's few days at home to find a daughter-in-law in their own village or nearby villages.
As the saying goes, twisting melons is not sweet. In this era of advocating free love, young people in rural areas are reluctant to date unless they reach the age of necessity. If you want to find a suitable partner to get married, you often have to rely on yourself.
Just like that sentence: Looking back a million times in previous lives, all I got was a passing of this life. Fate is really wonderful. Love comes, or at the moment you turn around. So I would rather be forced to get married by my parents than attend a blind date arranged by my parents and aunts. It is better to use more snacks and find your home as soon as possible.