February 7th, 20 13, is the day after Li got married. Marriage was originally a great event in life, but the groom's family was not happy, because now Li is lying in the intensive care unit, dying.

The groom became like this only because of an ordinary marriage quarrel. In everyone's eyes, the marriage quarrel was originally just a joke, but Li was admitted to ICU because of these jokes.

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One critically ill notice came down and was rescued again and again. Seeing more and more debts, Li's health has not improved, but has become weaker and weaker.

Li's wife still can't believe what she saw. She just got married a few days ago, and she was alive and kicking a while ago. It's a little difficult to blink now.

Looking back at the wedding scene at that time, it should be full of good memories, but everyone feels chilling and still feels scared today.

In the face of the reporter's interview, Li's family endured the pain and told the reporter what happened.

The marriage was not smooth, and the groom was beaten by his friends in turn.

Li was very happy on her wedding day. He got up early in the morning to straighten his hair, put on a handsome suit and polish his shoes, ready to go to his wife's house to meet his relatives.

Everyone laughed and laughed along the way, and Li He held hands sweetly, dreaming of a happy life in the future.

1 1 half past ten, just about 100 meters away from home, the wedding car was suddenly stopped, and Li knew he was going to be beaten.

According to local customs, you should feel happy when you come back from the wedding. You have to beat the groom at a distance of 0/00 meters from the groom's home/kloc-,which means you have to go through hardships to be considered as the sweetness of life. The harder you work, the happier you will be. Only when you get married will you cherish this marriage.

Looking at the vast crowd in front of the car, Rui knows that she can't escape this time, and she can only get off with Shine Wong in everyone's expectation.

As soon as Li got off the bus, he was beaten. Before he realized it, his good brothers slapped him and greeted him. These friends are also unambiguous, and their hands keep hitting Li Mingjia on the back of the head.

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Li was frightened by the enthusiasm of his good brothers. Everyone cheered happily while playing, and someone echoed beside them and had a good time. Li Mingjia can only laugh awkwardly when she is in pain.

The relatives and friends at the scene were infected by this lively atmosphere, and people kept reaching out to the groom, and more and more people were watching. The scene was once chaotic.

"Let Xiao Li put the horse up, pick it up and go, don't fight." It is suggested that Li take the bride home.

Li Ruijia had to do so, and put Shine Wong high around his neck, ready to go home, but the crowd of onlookers blocked the way, and he couldn't move, so he ended in failure.

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Li Gang put the bride down carefully, and four people suddenly stepped forward and attacked the back of Li's head. They think that Li didn't get on the horse, which is an appropriate punishment.

"Still no, still very quiet."

Then there was a burst of laughter. Shine Wong was veiled and could only look down at the bustling crowd. Listening to everyone's input, he felt a little scared, so he ran through the crowd and rushed to the new house to hide.

Seeing the bride run away, the excitement should be over. Who knows that these friends are not going to let Li go, tell him to go forward, turn around, or do some difficult moves. If there is any inconsistency, he will be beaten.

In this way, Li finally entered the house, stopped with his friends for a while, chose a place to sit down and have a wedding banquet, and kept looking at the groom and discussing how to make him trick.

From noon to night, people kept patting the groom. When they saw Li grinning in pain, everyone laughed even more happily.

At the end of the party, all the guests left one after another, except Li's classmates and friends. They rushed into the wedding room with a smile, put him on the bed and beat him up, and started the vulgar behavior of disturbing the wedding room.

Li's mother worried about her son and stopped it, but no one listened. In addition, all the people involved in the marriage are friends who grew up with their sons, thinking that there will be no big problems, so they choose to sleep at night.

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The endless marriage lasted for four hours, and friends tried their best to torture the bride and groom. Li's sister is worried about what will happen and visits them from time to time. She saw that her brother's cheeks were a little red, and she went forward to ask if there was anything wrong. My brother just said that his feet hurt, and then he was pulled over by the troublemaker with a smile.

Wait until the groom is exhausted and everyone has a good time. After seeing off Li, he collapsed in bed. Shine Wong saw her husband's face was red and his breathing was a little short, so he quickly asked about her husband's physical condition.

At that time, the husband was exhausted by torture and insisted that it was all right, so that his wife should not worry. Shine Wong also thought that Rui Lijia might be too happy and a little drunk, so he went to bed.

Who knows that when I woke up the next day, my husband was lying in bed and couldn't move.

So I quickly contacted and sent it to the local hospital for treatment. The small hospital didn't find out the cause either. Seeing that Li Yue was getting worse, he was rushed to Shanxi Hospital. Li was sent to the intensive care unit that night.

The bad marriage killed people, and the groom was seriously injured and admitted to ICU.

Through examination, the doctor found that Li's trachea ruptured, which eventually led to cerebral ischemia and hypoxia, and further observation was needed to arrange the operation.

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The diagnosis and treatment proposal issued by the hospital: the injury caused many complications such as "lung infection, respiratory failure, ischemic and hypoxic encephalopathy, electrolyte disorder, hypernatremia".

"Help my baby."

The mother collapsed, knelt on the ground, looked at her son's painful expression and begged reporters and doctors. At this moment, she wished she could bear the pain instead of her son.

However, no matter how her mother shouted, Li remained motionless and quietly lying in the ICU, relying on infusion and ventilator to maintain her life.

Maybe he feels guilty. His "friend" who beat him came to visit in February 10, sent some supplements and 600 yuan money, and left soon.

When Li's "friends" left, Li's mother also asked them to help borrow some money: "They are all good friends. I hope I can help more."

They readily agreed, but there was no news when they got back.

On February 1 1, Li was pushed into the operating room for tracheal suture, and her mother waited anxiously outside, wiping her tears.

She told everyone that for ten years, she raised her two children by herself, went out to work in the fields early every day, and came back to work at night. All the housework falls on her shoulders, but she has no complaints and only wants the children to grow up healthily.

Seeing that his daughter got married, this time his son also married his daughter-in-law. I thought life would be less difficult in the future, but who knows this happened.

The daughter hugged her crying mother and kept comforting her, telling her that she would be fine after the operation and her brother would wake up.

Li was pushed out of the operating room and sent to the intensive care unit again. These days, all the family members are quietly waiting outside, observing the changes of Li.

Because of the high cost of treatment, all the money collected from marriage was spent, and I borrowed money everywhere and owed a lot of foreign debts. However, for the treatment cost of nearly 10,000 yuan per day, a rural family borrowed a drop in the bucket anyway.

"In order to look after the baby, we mortgaged the house, and now this is our home."

In order to save money, Li's family put quilts and kettles outside the ward and ate only one meal and some steamed bread every day.

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Some well-meaning patients will help them from time to time when they see that they are really pitiful, send them food or drink, and then plug hundreds of dollars in aid when they are not paying attention. Mother Li shouldn't quietly stuff it under the pillow at night.

One of them is a 60-year-old elder sister named Zhang, a patient whom Li met when she moved in. After leaving the hospital, she will often come to Li See's mother to help find a way, contact a lawyer and raise money.

Too sick to return to heaven

In this way, after staying in the hospital for more than a month, Li's hospitalization expenses have reached more than 200,000 yuan, and he still owes the hospital 10 more than 10,000 yuan. However, Li's condition showed no signs of improvement.

Mother Li is determined to save her son, and no matter how much money she spends, she will never give up even if she goes begging to pay off her debts. But the tragic fate still didn't let her go.

On March 20th, 20 13, the doctor told Li's mother that Li's condition was not optimistic and she might not survive. Family members should be prepared to see their children for the last time.

Mother Li froze in place for a moment, and big tears came to her eyes. Her daughter helped her mother to the ward.

"At that time, we were all cheated at that moment. Seeing my brother lying in the ward, we decided to transfer him to Qingxu (place name). Let's go home together. "

Mother Li looked at her son with only one breath left and prepared for the worst. They asked good people to help contact the vehicle and take her son to see his relatives in his hometown for the last time.

Unfortunately, on the way home, Li finally closed his eyes and passed away.

The mother hugged her son tightly and burst into tears. At this moment, the grief accumulated for many days was unbearable, and the speeding vehicles drove into the hometown path with crying.

When she learned the news of Li's death, she sat in the wedding room without saying a word, staring blankly at the furnishings in the wedding room, the brand-new red quilt, the double doll who tied the knot, and the red happy word, which was slightly ironic and dazzling.

"I want to be strong! I want to comfort my mother and give my brother a statement! "

Li's sister looked at her grief-stricken mother and sister-in-law and made up her mind to make the person who beat her brother pay. In a rage, she invited the police of the local police station to do an autopsy, took videos and evidence, and took the married person to court.

Married people argue and pass the buck.

With the joint efforts of Li's sister and the police, four main members of the married couple were charged with negligent death: Li Jiapeng, Xia Xiaolong, Xia Fuping and Yan.

However, Yan, who learned the news of Li's death, was afraid of taking legal responsibility for compensation and had fled and hid. The police could only temporarily prosecute the other three.

I thought that these three people would plead guilty and give the Li family an explanation, but they made an uncharacteristic excuse and asked the defense lawyer to plead not guilty, and they didn't think it was their fault.

The three agreed that marriage conflict is just a custom, which happens every year. No one will die in so many years of marriage struggle. How did Li die? Li's poor health must have led to this result.

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Moreover, several people just suffered a small attack in the cerebellum, and Li died in his forties. There must be many unknown factors in this. As far as the hospital is concerned, they are the most responsible party, because the report says that Li has many complications after surgery, and Li's death may be related to the hospital.

Even if the death is caused by their fault, it is enough for the villagers to settle the compensation privately, so as not to be arrested, detained and imprisoned now.

Looking at several stubborn people, the police also provided relevant evidence and stated their doubts.

First of all, Li is strong. He used to be an employee of a vinegar factory. At the age of 24, he is at the peak of his energy. There is no bad health factor.

Secondly, hospital treatment, there is no misconduct, postoperative infection is because their injuries are more serious, and they are still getting worse when they are sent, so doctors can only try their best to treat them.

The main cause of Li's death is still being beaten. Several people laid hands on him too hard, regardless of others' wishes, hitting him on the back of the head and neck many times, which led to the tragedy.

In the end, three people were sentenced to three years in prison for causing death through negligence.

In addition, a life just disappeared, which is unacceptable to Li Mu. In addition, Li Mu asked several people to pay the 950,000 yuan that Li owed.

However, as rural people, even if 950,000 yuan is spread evenly, it is still an astronomical figure, so the three people can only kneel down and pray for Li's forgiveness, hoping to reduce some expenses.

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After several negotiations, Li Niannian is now a neighbor, and it was an unintentional move, replacing 950,000 with 369,000.

Xu was condemned by his conscience. Yan, who escaped, surrendered himself and was sentenced to the same punishment as the other three.

Even 369,000 won't save a life. Originally it was just a custom, but I don't want this custom to lead to the breakdown of a family. What a cruel thing it is for a mother who has gone through hardships and a newly married wife.

The wedding turned into a funeral, and the people in the village gave Li a funeral with a heavy heart.

Nowadays, the quality of life is getting better and better, and married people are more qualified to abide by the traditional marriage customs, and play more new tricks on this basis, which gradually leads to the deviation of many local customs and the marriage is becoming more and more excessive.

Not only the bride and groom, but also the bridesmaids, groomsmen and parents of both sides have become jokes pushed by troublemakers, but in fact, this kind of joke can only make people laugh and watch the crowd, but it will hurt the parties greatly, because there are no fewer people who are injured in marriage.

Therefore, this bad marriage habit should be abandoned as soon as possible. Making trouble is a tradition, but it is necessary to make trouble in a civilized way. Since we are in a civilized society, we should get married in a civilized way and set a new trend. I hope everyone can grow up, abandon this folk custom and get married in a civilized way in the future.