Marriage from ancient times to the present pays attention to the right match, which is particularly important in ancient times. Although these four words are no longer mentioned today, when two families discuss marriage, the first thing parents compare is the family status of the two families.
The success or failure of this marriage depends on the attitude and thoughts of the future mother-in-law. Whether you can agree to this marriage can be divided into the following two situations.
Happy ending: My mother-in-law was taught that love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families, even two families. A marriage without parents' attention and blessing will not be truly happy in the end. It is very common and realistic for a mother-in-law to dislike her daughter-in-law's poor family.
Being rejected by her mother-in-law will inevitably hinder the road to marriage; Mother-in-law thinks that the woman's family is poor and unworthy of herself, and she has great prejudice against her future daughter-in-law's family. I think it is not good for my son's growth and future to start helping the woman's family after marriage.
Before, my mother-in-law turned against marriage. It wasn't long before the relationship between the two sides froze, and her mother-in-law's attitude changed 180. Such a situation is unlikely to happen unless a miracle happens. If the mother-in-law's attitude really changes, in this case, the marriage can still continue, and the woman can rest assured to marry her mother-in-law.
Whether a person's heart is sincere or not can be seen through external performance. It is impossible to be kind and sincere on the surface without thinking about your heart. When I talk to my mother-in-law, I can deeply feel each other's real thoughts and feelings. This is the ideal ending. From the initial contradiction to the final handshake, the marriage can be lively and smooth only after the knot between the two families is untied, and married life is bound to be a new beginning.
Strong twist melon: the mother-in-law is coerced by her son to agree to the above situation, which is the most ideal ending and the most impossible ending. People's thoughts are hard to be changed in a short time, especially deep-rooted ideas, which will not be easily changed because of a word from their loved ones. There has been a change in a short time, not so much a change as a compromise.
Mother-in-law disapproves of this marriage, but her son is her favorite. The most sad person who refuses his son's marriage should be his son and future daughter-in-law. Seeing her son's heart broken, the mother will be sad; What's more, the son doesn't want such an ending. In theory, he can communicate with his mother. In serious cases, he can do something irrational to force his mother to compromise.
Concessions made for my son, even if it is a bride price of 200 thousand for the woman's family, this wedding can not be agreed. I would rather miss a marriage than rack my brains to think about how to deal with family relations and contradictions every day after marriage as if it had been a year.
In this case, the mother-in-law may laugh all the time, and some mothers-in-law with big opinions may not laugh all the time. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be awkward after marriage; Daughter-in-law is always good at everything, and contracting all the housework may not please her mother-in-law.
Instead of thinking all day about how to get the approval of her mother-in-law and enter the "rich family" with rich life. It is better to find a suitable family and live in harmony with in-laws, which is stronger than material advantages.
In the face of major choices in life, in reality, many girls will choose love. Boyfriend's words, there will be such an idea in my mind. Even if her mother-in-law doesn't accept herself at present, she will think that everything will be fine as long as she gets married. But is this really the case? Personally, I think that a high probability will be counterproductive. Talking about marriage, in the face of such a situation, how would you choose?