In the self-introduction session, I found that many people intend to embark on the career path of florists after obtaining certificates. Everyone wants to do this, because they think arranging flowers is their hobby and being a florist is their dream. Besides, it is a wonderful thing to spend time and money together every day!

But a month later, when I graduated, I found that some people quit before they finished their classes; Some people made a 180 degree turn when they graduated, saying that they didn't want to be a florist anymore, because after such a long time of study, they suddenly found it really hard to be a florist. There was even a girl who said with a sad face: I was exhausted from dealing with flowers every day for a month. I get a headache when I smell the flowers. When I get back, I have to have a good rest and adjust. I don't want to touch flowers for the time being. Moreover, she resigned and went to school. After the break, she had to find a job quickly, or she would chew on the old man, which was very stressful and anxious ~

You see, I wanted to realize my dream through my hobby, but my dream ruined my hobby. What happened? In fact, it is not as easy as you think to take interest as a career. If you have such an idea, you might as well try it first.

In other words, you should know how much you like your hobby. Take the girl mentioned above as an example: she only liked to associate with flowers before studying, but after learning about it, she found that if she wanted to open a flower shop, she would have to buy goods at four or five in the morning every day; Flowers are precious, so it takes a lot of time and labor to keep them fresh. If you receive a wedding project, you should constantly change the plan for creativity and stay up late for implementation; Even if you make a bunch of 99 roses, you will be tired and backache, and your hands will be covered with blood ... Once delicate fingers will become rough and ugly, and beautiful girls will become yellow-faced. It turns out that the beauty of floral art is flowers, and the florist is just a behind-the-scenes worker, not only hard, but sometimes even lonely.

Once you know the nature of the matter, you immediately have the idea of giving up when you encounter difficulties, which only shows that you really don't like it enough. People who do their favorite things to the extreme are not only fond of themselves, but usually obsessed-they can pay any price to do things well.

Therefore, if you want to pursue hobbies as a dream, you must know your own preferences. If you just like it in general, then it is no problem to have a taste and adjust your life; And if you really get to the point where you can immerse yourself in it and then take hard work as a career, you won't ruin your hobby.

After the first move, the second move.

In other words, it is to face the reality, understand the span between personal abilities and interests, and confirm whether you are willing to make efforts that ordinary people may not be able to achieve their dreams.

For example, someone likes singing very much and wants to be a professional singer, but he can't hear all the tones, so it's too difficult to realize his dream.

But if you really stick to your hobbies, sometimes even if you have some shortcomings in talent and ability, you can make up for them through hard work. When Mr. Mei Lanfang, a master of Beijing Opera, was young, his eyes were nearsighted, his eyelids drooped, his eyes could not be exposed at all, and he also suffered from eye diseases such as tears in the wind. Wanting to be an actor is really a fatal flaw, so when I was apprenticing to the master, the master said, "Grandpa doesn't like to eat-how can you sing with such a pair of dead fish eyes?" !

But Mr. Mei Lanfang did not give up because of this. He keeps a large flock of pigeons and flies them into the sky every day to practice his eyesight by taming them. After a long time, Mr. Mei Lanfang not only cured the eye disease of tears in the wind, but also was radiant and full of expectations for life, and eventually became the first of the "four famous Dan".

This story once again shows that if you are obsessed with hobbies, even if you are born with deficiencies, as long as you work hard enough, you can still cross the distance between individuals and interests, even the gap, and realize your dreams through hobbies!

There is another situation: you are really crazy about one thing. You have internal conditions, but some objective factors restrict you. For example: temporary financial difficulties, or family situation does not allow. Then you can try a soft landing at this time-first develop your hobby into a sideline, and then wait for an opportunity to change careers or start a business until it improves.

Nowadays, writing is very popular. Many people can earn more than 10,000 yuan a month when they see other people's code words. They think they have a good foundation, so they quit their jobs and write full-time. But as a result, the original source of income was cut off, SOHO reduced social activities, and interpersonal relationships became monotonous. Not only can I not write a good article behind closed doors every day, but my mood is also ruined, and the whole person falls into a trough ... At this time, some people will complain that they have been photographed on the beach by dreams. In fact, it's not your dreams that shoot you on the beach, but your unrealistic delusion.

In this case, in fact, the best way is to stick to the original job, practice writing in your spare time, and strive to contribute. When the work is loved by the public, or even signing a platform, you can get a stable income, so that the career change experience will be smooth and successful.

From this perspective, if you want to realize your life dream through hobbies, you must first understand yourself and see how deep your feelings for hobbies are; Then make a self-judgment to see if your ability can be achieved, or if you have the perseverance and determination to endure hardship even if your ability is slightly poor.

In short, it is really great to realize your dreams through hobbies. Beautiful dreams abound in this world, but dreams that are easy to realize are hard to find with lanterns. Therefore, before taking action, we must know ourselves and ourselves, recognize the reality, and then rationally choose whether to change careers immediately or try sideline business first. Only by moving forward in a down-to-earth manner can we soar in the dream sky!