These big fish and meat that can't be seen in daily life are fully displayed at the banquet.
Attending banquets is also one of children's hobbies. All the food on the table is loved by the villagers. Just watching the food, you are already blind.
At every banquet, these neighbors chat together, have deeper communication with each other and increase their feelings, which is a unique social way for rural people.
Then you can see a person's family etiquette at the dinner table. The behavior of these people is annoying. I don't know if you met them at the party. Let's have a look.
First, it's too gossip
Generally speaking, the population in rural areas is relatively large, and the living area in rural areas is relatively large. Most rural people will choose to hold banquets at home. They only need to prepare a few tables and chairs, and the family can cook several tables. Therefore, the dislocation of rural banquets is not particularly particular, and most of them are relatives and friends nearby, who will not care about these etiquette.
Maybe I met some gossips at this table, and their mouths have never been broken since the banquet.
The most unacceptable thing is that they especially like to pry into other people's private affairs. These people not only like to pry, but also may spread these gossip to other places.
If afterwards, because these gossip reach the ears of the parties, it will cause many unnecessary misunderstandings.
Generally, we don't pay attention to such people when we meet them at the dinner table. We just eat silently. Only silence is the best response to them.
Second, persuade wine
At many rural banquets, you will see some male friends especially like to persuade wine. They especially like to persuade people to drink, but drinking to a certain extent will be harmful to their health.
Once you refuse their request not to drink with them, it will be disrespectful to them in the eyes of these people and make their relationship particularly embarrassing.
Just refuse the relationship that is neither painful nor itchy. There is no shortage of that friend at all.
In the news of the previous two years, many rural people advised them to drink during the New Year, and later their lives were in danger.
Third, grab food.
Especially in this large banquet, there may be many dishes that can't be eaten in daily life. Some old rural women especially like to grab food. As soon as a dish was served, they habitually took it for themselves and swept it away.
This kind of behavior is particularly impolite, even if you love this dish again, you can't cook it, which will make people feel particularly incompetent.
In particular, some elderly people take their children to eat, and the items that children especially like to eat will be put aside.
Fourth, pack in advance.
I saw in the online video two days ago that this phenomenon still exists in society.
China has always avoided waste and advocated customer packaging. This behavior of not wasting food is particularly worth encouraging.
However, the over-packaging of rural banquets will cause resentment of others, and it may be gone after eating a few dishes.
This kind of behavior is also particularly overbearing, and some people will definitely stand up to the theory if they can't stand it.
Five, binge drinking
I don't know if you have met some people who obviously can't drink, but they just love to drink, and after drinking, they are crazy about drinking in public. This kind of behavior is particularly incomprehensible.
Attending the party itself may be a pleasure, and they also want to express their joy, but there is no need to get drunk and start to reverse right and wrong. The owner should be the happiest.
Six, saliva outflow
At present, most banquets in rural areas are disposable bowls and chopsticks, and most people use public chopsticks and spoons to pick up vegetables, also for personal hygiene.
But now some people can't control it in the process of speaking, and the saliva will flow out at random.
Maybe when you are not paying attention, you will throw up on food. How can others get rid of it?
Especially when you eat, your mouth is wrapped and you can talk after chewing.
Seven, eat back.
I met this kind of person when I attended the party these two days. Generally, I have to pay for banquets in rural areas, which also reflects my courtesy.
Some people think they have more money with them and want to eat the banquet back.
After eating one table, other tables began to gobble up, and some people even extended the meal time.
Because of the banquet in the countryside, we have to clean up immediately after eating a table, and we have to cook, and there are guests at the next table.
Most people hate these kinds of people. If someone is found to have such behavior at the dinner table, he will definitely not sit at the same table with such a person next time and will definitely hide.