In fact, there is no fixed answer to the question whether the man should buy a car or a house for the woman when he gets married. What to buy depends on the specific requirements and economic situation of both husband and wife. If both parties have sufficient economic strength and the woman has stronger demand and interest in buying real estate, then the man can consider buying a house. If both parties already have a house, or there is not much demand for buying a house, then the man can consider buying a car. In short, the choice of what to buy should be based on the wishes of both parties and the actual situation. Before making a decision, both parties should fully consider their financial situation and needs and make the most suitable choice according to their actual situation.