But today's young people are not afraid of bosses, colleagues and parents. They are afraid that people who have nothing to do with their relatives will not go anywhere at the Chinese New Year party, as if they were avoiding the plague and annoying people.

Did you take the college entrance examination? How is your study? Yo, you did badly in the exam. Not as good as my children. Let me tell you ...

Yo, you did really well in the exam. Well, it's a little higher than our home. Good universities are useless. It is better to take an examination of a junior college and find a job early, just like our family. You said you were a big man who went to school. ...

There is a saying in Zhihu that accurately sums up relatives: look down on you when you are down and out, and run on you when you are prosperous.

This kind of relatives can be described by the joke of China crosstalk actor Degang Guo: You don't wear a hat, and relatives ask you, why don't you wear a hat? When you wear a hat, your relatives ask you again, who told you to wear a hat?

People who don't know whether they are relatives or friends, in the tone of relatives, don't mention which pot can't be boiled.

Benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom, and faith have no trace of what should be, no sense of boundaries.

The day before yesterday, a couple's wedding was ruined by this group of relatives who have no sense of boundaries.

The couple met on a blind date, but neither of them had any hope in this form. After getting to know each other, I found that I met each other late.

Soon, the two sides began to prepare for the wedding. Because the family conditions of both sides are similar, and there are no insatiable people, the bride price and garage of both sides are quickly settled.

A week before the wedding, the two received a marriage certificate, and the guests rehearsed the contents of the wedding. All the people present were satisfied.

But on the wedding day, something went wrong.

When the groom enters the door to marry the bride, the groom changes his mouth to money and candy and distributes them one by one as mentioned before.

However, some relatives of the woman broke the rules and asked for money many times. Although the man gave money to avoid trouble, there was already a powder keg at this time.

After enduring all kinds of humiliation, I finally married the bride.

But the unruly relatives of the woman are really rude, and the couple come out to pick up things when they offer tea to their parents.

According to local rules, newlyweds should bow to the bride's parents, offer tea and change their minds, and then collect money from the bride's parents. So is the plan.

Such a simple process was abruptly ruined by a woman's relatives.

A female relative stood up and booed, saying that the couple would kneel on the ground, and the groom put up with it.

Then relatives shouted and asked the groom to kowtow three times. The groom wanted to bear it, and was pulled up by the elderly in the family. The man's relatives couldn't help it. They stood up and said, Our custom there is to kowtow to the dead only in Tomb-Sweeping Day.

The bride's parents were supposed to hand in the change, but they were stopped by her relatives. The aunts said that if you give it at this time, the woman will be looked down upon by the man in the future.

Relatives of both sides began to fight, and the groom was injured, and the number was small, so he ran away in the wedding car.

Afterwards, the angry man offered to refund the bride price and compensate for the loss.

Later, the woman who deliberately compromised and wanted to restart the banquet quarreled with the man again.

This kind of relatives who have no sense of boundaries and mess around are nothing more than adding chaos to other people's lives.

The author believes that it has always been that when relatives lose their sense of boundaries, they should return them in a few words. The best way to get along with hooligans is to repel each other, otherwise they will suck your wounds like leeches.