Taboos to attend weddings.
1, avoid taking scissors
According to an ancient legend, the older moon ties a red line between two people, so that men and women can be happy together. The red line is most afraid of scissors, so it is taboo for others to bring scissors to their wedding. It's not easy for couples to be together. Don't let this pair of scissors cut the red line between them.
2. Avoid taking a lead comb
Since ancient times, combs have meant to break the red line. Therefore, attend other people's weddings, and finally avoid taking the lead in combing, so as not to have a bad influence on the couple.
3. Avoid wearing all black.
Traditionally, wearing black means going to a funeral, so if you really can't figure out what to wear and have no other clothes, you can wear a black dress with a colorful belt and some accessories on your neck and hands as highlights. Bags and shoes should also try to find different colors to match.
The mourners are not allowed to attend the wedding.
It is disrespectful to the deceased not to let the bereaved attend the wedding. When the immediate family members die, they should keep filial piety at home as a memorial, and should not participate in various entertainment activities, let alone weddings full of festive atmosphere. So as not to stimulate the dead and punish them.
What five types of people are not suitable for weddings?
1, happy events and happy events do not conflict.
Many people know that white things can't collide with happy events, but there is a folk custom that happy events and happy events should not collide. For example, there are happy events around you or at home. Your friend is getting married or inviting you to a wedding reception. You should also politely refuse or explain the situation. To understand with the words of life, this is to avoid the superposition of happy events and happy events, resulting in counterproductive effects, so we should also avoid it.
2. When the wedding date conflicts with yourself, it is not suitable to attend other people's weddings.
Although in principle, the wedding day is dominated by married men and women, some people, such as those who are usually in poor health, have average luck and have been ill for a long time, must not attend. Because when you are "weak", it is an ordinary day of conflict with you, and it may also bring you more trouble.
It's better for pregnant women not to attend other people's weddings.
What is the reason? Mainly at weddings, formal ceremonies, such as setting off firecrackers, or some scenes that are too lively and festive, are easy to touch the fetal god, which is also quite taboo. Even if you participate, you must avoid it when the bride introduces you, and you can't participate directly.
People who have not recovered from a long illness are not suitable for attending other people's weddings or wedding banquets in a short time.
From the perspective of numerology, people who have recovered from a long illness usually indicate that the worst luck is about to pass and good luck is coming. Because the luck of patients with chronic diseases has just turned from the worst to the best, but marriage is usually the best time. From this good or bad degree, it is not suitable for touching. From another angle of Chinese medicine, people who have not recovered from a long illness have just begun to stabilize their mentality and should not be overjoyed and sorrowful.
5, there are white things around, not suitable for attending other people's weddings or wedding banquets.
I believe many people have no objection to this. In a folk saying, it is good not to rush to do bad things. This is actually a folk custom, and you can't say it's unreasonable. Because some customs or habits have been used for thousands of years, they are still quite effective. So, if you have something white around you, even if others are very hospitable, try not to attend other people's weddings.