Before 2020 1 1 month, Zhao Shuli had been doing "Love Island Wedding Art Troupe" and dried vegetables shop business in Xishe Street, yijun county, Tongchuan City. Although her husband, Hao Zhangping, suffered from severe lumbar disc herniation in 2004, they are all stubborn, never admit defeat, dare to struggle and persist in starting a business, so their families are very happy and their lives are very happy.
? There are unexpected events in the sky, and people have fortunes; 165438+20201October 4th, my father-in-law Hao Chunrong suddenly felt a sharp pain in his stomach. Zhao Shuli was busy putting down business, and her husband Hao Zhangping took her father-in-law to the county hospital. After examination, she was diagnosed with gastric cancer. The sudden heavy blow made the mother-in-law who was already paraplegic 12 worse. Two old people fell down separately, and their husbands were disabled at the waist. Zhao Shuli, a well-known filial daughter-in-law, how can she tolerate the sudden impact of the floating nest? After discussing with her husband Hao Zhangping, she temporarily sent her paralyzed mother-in-law to her sister's house for foster care. The couple left their business and embarked on a long road to seek medical treatment. They go from county hospitals to city hospitals and from city hospitals to provincial people's hospitals. Over time, the young couple who watched their father-in-law's illness get worse day by day felt distressed and helpless, and treated them actively while serving them carefully. After nearly half a year of repeated hospitalization, discharge and hospitalization. Finally, on March 20021and 16, he was transferred to yijun county Hospital for remission treatment. During this period, my father-in-law completely lost his self-care ability, such as daily medication, diet and drinking water. , and his basic daily life all fell upon Zhao Shuli.
? Her diligent figure often walks around the ward, and family pictures of helping her father-in-law feed water, rice and medicine often appear. Every time she labored to help her father-in-law's thin body, she quickly picked up the quilt that covered her yard at night, gently placed it behind her father-in-law, and tried to help him up and sit up straight. Over and over again, I blow and taste with my mouth. When I'm hot, I'm afraid of burns. When it's cold, I'm afraid my father-in-law will have a stomachache and vomit blood. Be careful, spoon by spoon. My father-in-law with advanced gastric cancer can't eat a few mouthfuls at a time, so he doesn't want to eat any more. But Zhao Shuli brought water from a new place, holding a disposable paper cup in the other hand and gargling for him over and over again. Sometimes, when my father-in-law accidentally choked on the water, Zhao Shuli was busy beating and massaging his back with his hands. Every night before rest, she boiled hot water and insisted on helping her father-in-law soak his feet. So 24 hours a day, care carefully, I don't know how many times an action has to be repeated. The patients in the same ward were very envious and praised again and again, saying, "Lao Hao, your eldest son" is burning incense in the temple. You are lucky to meet such a good daughter-in-law in your life. "
Hao Chunrong put his hand on his stomach and endured the pain. He said happily, "Yes! We have no children, and neither do we. Since then, Li Shu has been living in our house. She is very filial to my old couple. She never rushes to do housework, and what is delicious always makes my old couple stutter first. In the first few years of marriage, she was financially strapped, but every New Year, she added new clothes to my old couple and my little grandson, but she wore old clothes when she got married. Seriously, we have always regarded our daughter-in-law as our daughter. She is already the "shopkeeper" of our family. In recent years, life has been good, New Year; As big as chicken, duck and fish, cigarettes, wine, tea, tofu, dried vegetables, vegetables, fruits, rice, noodles and oil are all taken care of by the baby. In addition, 500 yuan's red envelopes were given to the old couple. Do you think we are blessed? Seriously, Fiona Fang is rare for dozens of miles ... Ha ha ha ".
? The patient was very happy to see Lao Hao and mention his virtuous wife.
? He said, "Yes, you should cherish it. There is a family in my neighboring village. My father was diagnosed with esophageal cancer last year. The old man went to the village medical station himself and wanted to hang a few bottles of intravenous drip to relieve pain, but his son called him back under the muttering of his daughter-in-law. As a result, the old man didn't use any medicine until he died. "
"Yes, look at me, a sick seedling, a disappointing physique. At this juncture, spring ploughing and busy farming can't help the doll at all, and even harm the baby. Hey! I feel that it is much easier to be hospitalized for many days, and I have to leave the hospital quickly. "
? Life has to go on, life has to live. My mother-in-law has been at my sister's house for a long time. This is not an option. I care, too. At present, my father-in-law's condition has been temporarily consolidated. So after discussing with her husband Hao Zhangping, Zhao Shuli decided to take her mother-in-law back from her sister's house, take care of her bedridden parents and run an eight-acre apple orchard. Let my husband concentrate on the wedding performance and dried vegetables business of Love Island. Because of the debt owed, two old people have to see a doctor, their sons have a family, buy a house and their daughters go to school. These all need a lot of money! So you must work hard to make money and never fall down!
In the spring of March, Qingming has passed, and spring is blooming. Eight acres of apple orchards, flowers in full bloom, people like it. Since Zhao Shuli brought her paralyzed mother-in-law and bedridden father-in-law home, she got up early at five o'clock every day to help her parents dress, wash, feed water, medicine and have breakfast. After cleaning up the house, I put my old mobile phone in front of my paralyzed mother-in-law, reminding my father-in-law to call me as soon as possible if there is anything. Then run all the way to the apple orchard to clean up weeds, dead branches, sparse flowers and so on. In the meantime, every hour and a half, she ran home to see. So one line and two points, day after day, every day. Learn from a painful experience, be strong and unyielding, and face it optimistically.
It is often easier to know something than to do it, and it is more difficult to stick to it. In Ma Yuan Village, people can always see a busy figure and a smiling and kind face from morning till night. As the saying goes, "filial piety is the first of all virtues, and filial piety is the foundation of virtue." Mother-in-law is paralyzed in bed, often incontinent and dirty sheets and clothes. Zhao Shuli never dislikes it, and always cleans up her mother-in-law at the first time.
? Touching examples of Zhao Shuli's filial piety, diligence and simplicity, enthusiasm and openness, and active struggle for her in-laws spread around her home. Village cadres visited many times and offered to help and take care of them through organizations. However, Zhao Shuli believes that we are still young, and it is our responsibility to overcome our own difficulties and honor our parents! Politely refused. ...
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